I've heard mixed reviews about the safety of essential oils for pregnancy, since they're so potent, etc. There seem to be a lot of cautions out there for their use.
Well, my aunt sent me this belly "balm" stuff for pregnant bellies, and it smells SO STRONG that it almost knocks me out. It's a jar that came in a nest? with a poem (yes, you read that right), and the label indicates that it's for pregnant bellies. I wasn't using it much (the smell is just so super strong!), but my stretch marks are getting out of control, as is the itchiness factor, etc., so I put some on tonight before bed.
So my questions for you ladies are: if you know anything about essential oils and pregnancy, are lavender and lemon ok ones? What about their use in a balm or lotion that you rub on your tummy? If I bring this to my next appt to ask my midwife if it's safe to use, is she going to just laugh at me?

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I swear I'm not a crazy paranoid pregnant lady. I just don't know a lot about this stuff and wanted to make sure it's ok to use before I cover the bump in it!

TIA! :x
Re: Essential Oil "Balm" - Safe?
Native NYC-ers living in Switzerland - First time parents - 36 + 37
TTC: 8 Months / BFP: 2/8/2014 / EDD: 10/20/2014
The jar came in a small box and was in the center of a realistic looking bird's nest made of some kind of soft, fake branchy and mossy stuff (looked like this was what they used as packing material), and the poem said something about caressing the nest I've made for baby? I don't remember, but I did laugh at it a lot!
https://www.lucky3farm.com/#!store/c23c9
• Bergamot
• Roman chamomile
• Eucalyptus
• Geranium
• Ginger
• Grapefruit
• Lavender
• Lemon
• Lemongrass
• Lime
• Mandarin
• Neroli
• Patchouli
• Petitgrain
• Rose Otto
• Rosewood
• Sandalwood
• Sweet orange
• Tea tree
• Ylang ylang
(Sweet almond oil is used as a blending oil -- safe and moisturizing)
Now I'm off to shop their store! Manure tea sounds like the drink my tomatoes have been begging for...wonder how, and where, it's steeped?!
ETA: HOLY MOLY!! She spent $24 on this 4oz jar!! :-O