This is my first post... been hesitant but seeing all the support you ladies have for each other is incredible. My MIL has been frustrating me since day 1 of finding out that we were expecting. It started with us telling my hubby's parents the good news and asking them to keep it to themselves for a little while longer since it was pretty early on. Well she decided not to do that and told his entire family OUR big news.
Then this week my hubby was talking to her and explained that even though we find out next Thursday whether we are having a little boy or girl we may not tell them right away (we are trying to come up with a cute way to tell everyone). She then went to her sister and her husband crying that we aren't going to tell them at all and are punishing her for telling our news of the pregnancy!
She is taking all of the excitement for this pregnancy out of it for me. Every time we do anything she has to be included and in a way I kind of don't want to say anything to her since I do feel that she will just go run and tell everyone first. She makes everything about her, even to the point if I don't respond right away to an email she sends she immediately asks my hubby if I am mad at her.
I don't know how to explain how I am feeling to my hubby so he can have a chat with his mother. I am so worried that this is how it is going to be for the rest of this pregnancy and then once the baby is here. Any advice or support would be greatly appreciated!
Re: Need to vent
You should be firm with her, even if you come off as bitchy, that's YOUR news to share and not hers. Don't talk about the sex of the baby until you have decided how you will tell everyone and she will get over it. Some people need to grow up and realize not everything is about them. GL!!
If it were me I would also stop telling them info until that info is ready for a broader audience.
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