Good morning, ladies! It's hump day - both literally and figuratively for many of us! Halfway to the weekend and another day closer to the TWW...
Cycle/Month:
CD:
What are you doing to get pregnant?
Rants/raves/chart stalks:
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home?
Re: ***WTO Wednesday***
Cycle/Month: 1/2
CD: 17
What are you doing to get pregnant? PNVs, OPKs, ED sex during FW, Charting, BBT...
Rant/rave/chart stalks: My OPKs have been light since Monday...my temp spiked slightly yesterday, which, if continued today, would mean I O'd on Monday...this would make sense since my OPKs were very dark on Sunday, yet not quite at the level of the control line...I have decided that they might have actually been positive OPKs and that the slight difference in color between test and control line is due to wondfo cheapy-ness. I'm hoping I'm right.
In other news, my TTC anxiety has been fully replaced by potential home-ownership anxiety. We put an offer in on a home, our first, and are waiting to hear back...in the meantime, the house we want is in a town with no sewer/gas hookups and as such has oil heat, a propane tank for the stove/oven, a very lovely above-ground pool, septic system, alarm system, 2 sump pumps and a French drain (some water in basement 2x over last 16 years...these contraptions solved the problem), sprinkler system and a mother fucking partridge in a pear tree. This shit needs maintenance and costs money...I'm already craving apartment living. Combine these costs with TTC/pregnancy/tiny human ownership and the fact that I'm dropping a shift to start my master's program in the fall is a whole different kind of crazy train. What jackasses take on these increased expenses the same time as a decrease in income and a potential baby? Yup, we do. We can afford it...but it's a change for sure.
GTYK: I'd love a spa-like bathroom, gourmet range, sub-zero fridge and wine fridge. Potential new house has gourmet range and wine fridge so that's two down!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
@wine&cupcakes Congrats on making the offer, that's a HUGE step. We just bought my first ever house. It's crazy large amounts of work that seems to never get done/started, just take it slowly and before you know it a year will have gone by and you'll have a place that starts to look like yours. I kinda love coming home to a proper living room. I also love that we've ignored my brothers-in-laws advice and are not buying any furniture until we're sure what we want. This house is a process and it's sometimes great to not rush anything.
Cycle/Month:5/5
CD:18
What are you doing to get pregnant? opks, bbt, sex, folic acid, water.
Rants/raves/chart stalks: I GOT A POSITIVE OPK YESTERDAY!! A clear, test-line-darker-than control-line positive, this is the first positive thing I've managed to get since I started peeing on various tests since March. It's a big deal for me. So hopefully I'll get a clear temp shift and be on my way to TWW.
I'm already looking at the predicted period days in FF, those would be right in the middle of my US vacation. So if I get a BFP I'd need to stop drinking around my family and college buddies. Yeah, they'll know before I open my mouth.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home?
We just bought a home and now that we're attacking the re-deco stuff I understand why the price got lowered. This shit is work! My only must-have is a space to make a garden, other than that I'm a pretty flexible person.
TTC since March 2014
BFP#1 09/25/2014 EDD 6/4/2015
@littleliverpill - It is certainly pouring for us! We are taking on a lot at once but we'll make it work...we may be in for a tough couple of years if I have to stop working entirely to make it through school/baby but it will be worth it. FYI, your place sounds amazing!! I bet the weather is great too!
@budders12 - ugh! Hang in there...what are you doing (if anything) to monitor endo progress? Hopefully you feel better soon ((hugs!))
@sjpmcfmd - Thanks...it's going to be hard to realize that slow and steady will win the race on the house front...and that learning to maintain a home will become second nature soon enough. Congrats on the pos OPKs! Where are you going in the US?
@nevertoomanyshoes - Sometimes I think all of this temping/charting/opk-use is a mind fuck! I think HIO is a very good plan in case you can't exactly pinpoint O. Also, I plan to put all sorts of alcohol in the wine fridge!
@mamab828 - A Jacuzzi tub sounds amazing! I hope you guys get around to that soon!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
Cycle/Month:2
CD:20
What are you doing to get pregnant? All of it
Rants/raves/chart stalks: throat is killing me, no fever this AM so I could temp normally. I'm jus ready to get my CH already
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We rent currently waiting to own once we move. For renting the only must have is affordable. For owning I want an up to date kitchen with an open floor concept.
@mirak03 - sorry you have a sore throat but glad you don't have a fever!
@litteliverpill - ok, I take that back. I would die. I don't mix well with heat..or sun for that matter. But if you have a shady spot by the pool...that's a different story!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
Cycle/Month: 1
CD: 11
What are you doing to get pregnant? Temping and sex
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Hoping to start EOD sex tonight. Hoping as in I hope DH isn't totally turned off by this cold. FF is predicting that I'll O on cd16, so hopefully that will time up well. I'm not relying on that prediction- I don't have many cycles entered and I don't trust my body to be that regular. I'm loving that temping will take some of the guess work out of this.
GTKY: We own, and I love our house. We had planned to purchase before having DD but when we realized we would have to compromise on too much in our price range we decided to wait another year. Best decision ever. The only things I don't have are a gas range and a soaking tub. We are planning to finish the basement in the next few years, so my compromise was that DH can decorate and outfit his man cave however he wants as long as I get the bathroom of my dreams. So worth it.
CD: 19
What are you doing to get pregnant? Sex, OPKs, CM, BBT, PNVs
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Nothing
GTKY: We own our house. Some of my requirements were: 2 bathrooms, 2-car garage, 3+ bedrooms, decent size yard.
I'm sorry @Budders12
@sjpmcfmd congrats on the positive OPK!
Happy birthday @norsern <:-P
Sorry, I kind of slipped back into lurker status during AF. Sometimes I can't think about TTC too much right then. Plus my new summer class just started and it's killing me.
Cycle/Month: 3
CD: 7
What are you doing to get pregnant? Now that AF is gone, I should start temping again. But we'll be more NTNP for the next two months because the timing would be not great. (Also, this works well with my superstition; if the timing won't be great of course that's when it will happen. Works for me.)
Rants/raves/chart stalks: nope.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home?
We own our house and it's pretty much done but we still have to re-do the Kitchen once I'm done with school. We re-did pretty much everything else when we moved in 3 years ago.
Married 8/8/09
Surprise BFP 4/17/16; MC 5/13/16 at 7w2d
Cycle/Month: 3
CD: 14
What are you doing to get pregnant? BBT, Sex
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Damn chart... my temp spiked yesterday and plummeted today. I had 1 +OPK on Sunday and nothing since. Just gonna keep HIO and hope I get CH I guess. On the upside, I made my 6:30 class this morning. Worked out, showered, got breakfast and was still clocked in before 8. Proud of myself!
GTKY: We have owned our house for 5 years. I would love to have a more gourmet kitchen, bigger closets in the master and bigger bedrooms. There is a real possibility that we may be moving for DH's job with a year and a half so maybe we can make it happen. I will be sad though.. despite what I wish I had, I adore my house
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CD:2
What are you doing to get pregnant?Opks, Temping, CM Tracking, Sex, Preseed
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Abnormally Painful Cramps ...
GTKY:.do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home?
We currently rent but are waiting on the approval from the bank to go to shopping!
I must have a huge spacious bathroom ...No ifs ands or buts about it!
Cycle/Month: 4/5
CD: 17
What are you doing to get pregnant? sex, temping, PNVs, OPKs, CM check
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Exhausted. We had a long day yesterday without DD napping. And we have another long one today. Other than that nothing is happening. My husband is killing ants. We have been taken over and I hate ants. I don't want to even go into the kitchen right now.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We own our home. I like having an open house which was a must for us. For the next house (my dream house probably), I would love a really big kitchen, a big basement for projector to watch movies, a decent size master bathroom (ours is really small and not really even that), and a front pouch to sitting.
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Our beautiful girl came into our lives October 15, 2012
TFAS: March 2014
BFP #2 July 2014 Miscarriage (6 weeks) August 2014
BFP #3 September 2014 Chemical Pregnancy September 2014
Seeing the RE: February 2015
Diagnosis PCOS: February 2015
Our rainbow baby came into our lives February 27, 2016
BFP #6 January 2018 Miscarriage (7 weeks) February 2018
BFP #7 April 2018 EDD: 12/23/18
Happy Birthday! @norsern
Cycle/Month: 2
CD: 16
What are you doing to get pregnant? BBT, PNV, Sex
Rants/raves/chart stalks: With a dummy temp for tomorrow, it looks like O was Monday so I should be moving to 2WW soon! Timing was not as good as I had hoped.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We bought a house almost a year ago. We love having our own space with plenty of room. "Must haves" when looking were at least 1 acre, 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, open floor plan and move-in ready. We found the perfect place for us, but our dream home would have even more property and a fourth bedroom/basement for storage.
Congrats, @wine&cupcakes - hope your offer gets accepted!!!
Cycle/Month: 7
CD: 13
What are you doing to get pregnant?: All the things.
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Ranting at myself because I've been eating so much junk lately and now I feel bad because the dress I just bought last month is tighter this morning. I really want to get back to being healthy, problem is it's tech week so that plus full time job means no time to do anything else until Saturday morning. (My sleep is already getting cut down this week, so getting up earlier really isn't an option, unless I want to be a zombie at work.)
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home?
We own our home. It's a little small (granted, BIL lives with us so we have all of his stuff in the house too), but we love the area. It's not my dream home (the kitchen is ok, but as an avid baker and decorator it's often not enough for my purposes), and it needs some repairs and stuff - windows, carpets, etc. In a perfect world, I'd have the Property Brothers come by and fix it all.
ETA to actually answer the question - I need a huge kitchen. Lots of counter space, and a double oven would be nice too.
I will say being a homeowner has it's bonuses, but I do miss being able to call the rental office and letting them handle it when something breaks down and needs repair :P
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Wine&Cupcakes Best wishes for the offer to go through
Best wishes for all those about to move to 2ww!
Cycle/Month: 3/4
CD: 17
What are you doing to get pregnant? charting temp, cf, cp but apparently not having sex
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Well good news is I haven't o'd yet, the bad news is I'm very frustrated both sexually and emotionally... oh well this too shall pass just sucks in the moment
GTKY: I rent from my mother, house my ex h and I had owned together, needless to say divorce wrecked my financial status... I may recover in about 50 years.. but the house suits my needs, a private backyard- great for the dogs to play and me to lay out in (yes topless on occasion), enough bedrooms / baths for the boys and *1 more please, also basement wreck room for the boys to hang out and have their compute/tv, etc.
Now that they're out, it's so much better and I'm not the evil daughter-in-law anymore.
TTC since March 2014
BFP#1 09/25/2014 EDD 6/4/2015
@michyme123 - glad you got a + OPK!!
@Budders12 - I hope you feel better soon...I'll be thinking of you! Feel free to PM anytime...
@jags8 - omg 6 times!!! It's nuts! Our first offer we were one of 13 (!!!) and offered 25k over and still didn't get it. This house we are more hopeful for...actually, DH and I went there this past weekend for an open house and walked right in...problem was - the open house is next weekend! The owners were cleaning and nice enough to show us around anyways. We are hoping this works in our favor. Also, the house is 3400 sq ft. They put on a huge addition to accommodate their family so I feel like we will reap the benefit of that. Major downside is oil - I literally vomit thinking of how expensive that will be. We offered $5k under asking but want the fridge included. We have until 6pm to hear back!!! I can't wait!!
@bostonbaker - sounds like our requirements. I'm assuming you are also in Boston area? It's insane. Insanity!!!
@dio13 - DH got an offer to move to the Bay Area or NYC. Great, the only two more expensive places than where we are now! I can't believe house prices where you are !!
@KateRN08 - sorry about your spotting :-(
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
@osesecret - yes I get tagged despite TBs obvious preference for wine!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
The owners put on an addition but they knew it wouldn't garner them much more from an equity/sale standpoint so it's great that we can get a house with that much space in our price point. I hate looking for homes here. If we were in Texas or Atlanta we would be livin large!!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
Cycle/Month: 4(3AL)/11
CD: 10
What are you doing to get pregnant? all the things, EOD sex starts today!
Rants/raves/chart stalks: not much going on these days
GTKY: Do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We rent because the housing market in the Bay Area is REDONCULOUS! We are hoping to move back to the east coast in a few years, so it doesn't make sense for us to buy here. Must haves are dishwasher, laundry, and a little yard space for my planter boxes.
Cycle/Month: 2/3
CD: 12
What are you doing to get pregnant? PNV, temping, sex.
Rants/raves/chart stalks: I FINALLY figured out iPad formatting yesterday. Hopefully it still works today
other than that just have to plan well for sex timing, MH and I have screwy schedules this week.
GTKY: We rent for now until H graduates grad school later this year (and starts earning a paycheck). When we start looking we will want: a larger property, quiet location, bigger kitchen and a basement. The rest we can customize ourselves.
Surprise BFP Feb 2008 MC at 6w2d
BFP! 10/28/14 EDD 7/5/15
Surprise BFP Feb 2008 MC at 6w2d
BFP! 10/28/14 EDD 7/5/15
Cycle/Month: 3
CD: 9
What are you doing to get pregnant? Temping, charting, PNV, Pom Juice, OPKs, Sex.
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Just found out that DH will be out of town super early Friday morning until about midday on Sunday. Which totally sucks, because if my O follows its pattern, it will be either Friday or Saturday – and those are two days we will for sure be missing. Damn it.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We currently rent, but are looking into purchasing soon. A couple of “must haves” for me are a dishwasher and laundry in the house and a backyard for my dog (I have lived without a dishwasher and having to go to the Laundromat and I hated it). A design feature that I would love is the open floor plan concept – I want to be able to entertain guests while I am cooking in the kitchen – I also want to be able to see my children while I am in the kitchen – not have it be blocked off and separated. I would also love said kitchen to be super amazing and gourmet!
Me: 25, DH: 28, Baby #1 Due: April 30, 2015
Team BLUE!!
Cycle/Month: 1/1
CD: 11
What are you doing to get pregnant: Most of the things. BBT, CM, OPKs, EOD sex, etc.
Rants/Raves/chart stalks: I've been turning almost-positive Wondfo OPKs for over 24 hours now...hoping that i'll see a positive one either this evening or tomorrow morning, at which point ED sex will begin until i see a temp spike. Saw what I believe could have been EWCM this morning, after two days of watery...but it was only 11 hours post-sex so it could have been something else. Thinking i'll O this weekend (a week earlier than last cycle, which was my first post-BCP), in which case my timing looks really good!
GTKY: We own a condo right now but are casually looking at houses to buy (will maintain condo as a rental property as it is located center-city). Won't be desperate until i have a uterine inhabitant, at which point we're going to have to buy something fairly quickly. The down payment is already saved up for the next house and then some, because the condo is so cheap (we bought it when we were right out of college and now are 9 years into our professional lives, so our income has basically tripled since then).
Next house must have a good kitchen and master bed/bath with large closet, and a dock on a part of the lake that is good for water skiing, while maintaining a sub-40 minute commute. A walk-out basement or pool would be a bonus. :-)
Cycle/Month: 2
CD: 13
What are you doing to get pregnant? PNV, OPK, CM, Temping, EOD sex until FW the ED and gallon of water
Rants/raves/chart stalks: nothing as of now just waiting to o already
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We own our home have been here 5 years after living here a must have in our next home will be a walk in closet, pantry, and a big tub to get fully covered in because we don't have any of those here. For my dream home I would like a bedroom big enough for a couch and desk, I would want a steam room, a bigger laundry room and a hot tub and pool bigger then what we have now.
Month/Cycle: 14
CD: 7
What are you doing to get pregnant?: Sex, temping, OPK, CM, etc.
Rants/Raves/Chart Stalks: Here I go... For years, I've always thought I could feel ovulation between cycle days 8 and 11, but once I started learning more about my body, I thought I must be wrong, because it would mean I have a 17-18 day luteal phase. Then, I started just tracking periods and symptoms for over a year before TTC (to track possible endo symptoms). I still was feeling what I thought was ovulation pain consistently 18 days before my period. Then a few months ago, I went in on CD 7 for an transvaginal ultrasound to look at some other stuff, and was told that I was gearing up to ovulate "in the next 24 hours. " When that cycle was over, I did the math and sure enough... if I ovulated on day 8, I had an 18 day lp. Today is day 7 and FF, CM, and OPK all indicate that I'm gearing up to O. IS anyone else in my boat? Any other early ovulators/long lp girls out there? Certainly, I'm not alone. This is my first month temping and doing OPK, so I'm looking forward to getting at least a full month of data to look at.
GTKY: I was so glad to have been given some Home Depot gift cards when we bought our home. I swear I was in there 20 times a week!
TTC Since 6/2013 Early Loss: 9/2013 MFI Diagnosis: 12/2014
CD: 12
What are you doing to get pregnant? EOD Sex, opk's, temp/charting.
Rants/raves/chart stalks: Have my annual OBGYN appt tomorrow and plan to ask about short LP's (mostly 9 days with one 6 day). Not sure what will come of it but hoping for some suggestions.
GTKY: We put in an offer on a home last night...do you rent or own? What is a "must have" for you in a home? Is there a design feature that you'd absolutely love to have in your dream home? We own our home, just bought it in February and built it. Not perfect but was within our comfortable range. I'd love to have a kitchen with an island. The kitchen to me is the family gathering place and ours is just not big enough.
ETA: weird formatting
@Wine&Cupcakes ~ Congrats on the house offer and GL
Sorry things are rough for you right now @Budders12 I hope things get better for you soon
I think I might have said this yesterday (but I didn’t realize it was your first ever so I am going to say it again!) congrats on the +OPK @sjpmcfmd
@NeverTooManyShoes ~ Hopefully FF will get on board and switch your CH for you
Sorry to hear you are not feeling well @MiraK03
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! @morsern
Yay for the +OPK @michyme123
Hope your DH cooperates and you get good timing @RoastyToasty
@Jags8 ~ SIX times back and forth with the seller? That is craziness Glad it worked out for you!
Glad to see your name again @ava826
I hope you O soon @redbluepurple
@SpartanChick88 ~ Glad you made it to that class this morning! FX for CH soon
Sorry for the rough AF @mickaela15
@humblebee2 ~ I like the idea of the unfinished basement
@excited2see ~ Sorry about that living situation. That doesn’t sound fun at all
@bostonbaker ~ I could not live without my veggie garden either
FX for CH for you soon @dio13
Sorry for the confusing spotting @KateRN08
@rlpointer ~ Hope you get some rest soon and that the ants go away
GL @kdE2010
@DarcyHermione ~ Wondering how your test results were?
@cakewench2012 ~ Hoping your week gets less crazy soon
@kelley72 ~ Sorry you are frustrated. Hopefully things turn around soon for you
Sorry this cycle’s timing is giving you anxiety @osesecret. FX for you
GL in TWW @jennycam
FX for CH soon for you @PenguinMG By the way, love your avatar pic
@pmreed79 ~ Where in the bay area are you located?
Createmagic14 ~ ooooh! A farm house. I am officially jealous!
@beepity ~ Nice job on figuring out the IPad formatting
Sorry about your thermometer @nettje
@goldenlove3 ~ I think having no privacy would drive me crazy! I need to add that to my list while looking
That is a very interesting dream @MamaZEsquire Sorry you have that stressful deadline now
FX for good timing for you as well @mal922
Hope YH gets on board with some good birthday plans @frankenmom Also, score on the OPKs!
FX for CH for you soon @delujm0 seeing your first CH will be exciting. At least it was for me
@BillyHorrible ~ Does your temp dip from drinking? I thought it only caused spikes. I had a random dip too and the only off thing was drinking the night before, but I didn’t think it would have caused a dip
@FitMom3510 ~ Oh! A pantry. Adding that to my list too
Sorry about the cramps @lovegrilledcheese BTW, your screen name just made me incredibly hungry for a grilled cheese
Dang! I thought I O’d early on CD11 @DaikokuJess Hopefully you will learn more as you get more data. GL!
GL at the OBGYN tomorrow @Remylove1011 I hope you get some answers!
Me: 25, DH: 28, Baby #1 Due: April 30, 2015
Team BLUE!!
FYI for those wanting a big soaking tub... I have one. It is big enough for DH and I to both be in it with only our feet touching (heart shaped). While it is awesome and I love it, it takes 30 minutes to fill, drains the water heater and I have to boil three big pots of water on the stove to make it hot enough to satisfy me. I'm just putting it out there that the green grass may actually be a very expensive lawn company
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I forgot to mention that we can't flush the master toilet for a few hours after we drain the tub because it overwhelms the plumbing and the toilet stops up. That's most likely a plumbing issue here though. Had someone look at it and they couldn't figure it out.
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