My mom announced early on she wanted to give me a baby shower. When I was talking to MIL about it she said "don't worry about inviting us [us meaning her and SIL and DHs grandma], I want to have a separate shower here for our family." My mom was a little hurt because she wanted to throw a big shower with both families, but she is getting used to that kind of treatment by MIL (ex: MIL doesn't really seem like my mom for some reason- stopped inviting her to their annual Christmas party last year, etc... It's weird, and it's a long story).
Bottom line: Can I bring my mom with me to the shower at MILs? My best friend moved out of state and I kind of just don't want to show up to this shower alone. Is that weird? It's going to be all DH's extended family and I'm not really close to anyone there, including MIL and SIL. My mom and I are super close and I want to have her there, but I can't tell if that would be weird since my mom isn't invited.