UPDATE 1:45 risk for Down syndrome

jennielee123

 So I got a call the other day from the doctor, saying that i'm at a high risk for Down syndrome. I was shocked. For some reason the thought of this being a possibility never crossed my mind. I went in yesterday for a level 2 ultrasound to look for markers, they didn't find any, but were unable to get a clear look at her face due to her position so I am unsure about the presence of a nasal bone. They offered me an Amnio and after a lot of tears and mind changing I agreed to have one done. Now here I am lying in bed praying that I did not make the wrong decision. I don't know what I would do If I lose my little girl because of a choice that I made. No matter what the results are we are keeping her.I just didn't think I could emotionally get through the next 4 months not knowing. I feel like if it's bad news then we can grieve now, and when she comes we will be ready. Now for the long wait for the results. Is anybody else dealing with this right now? If you had an amnio do you know when you're "out"of the woods" as far as miscarriage goes?

UPDATE

   Got the call I've been praying for today. Test results are in and my LO does NOT have down syndrome. I couldn't stop crying on the phone with the genetic counselor. The last two weeks have been incredibly difficult, all you want when you are pregnant is to give birth to a healthy baby, and now I know I am one step closer to doing that. Thank you all for the prayers and support, they have been greatly needed and appreciated. Oh and she is FOR SURE a girl!

jennielee123

The 1:45 results are due to high hcg and low Papp-a results from my blood tests. I just heard about the Panorama today from reading another post here on The Bump. I had only heard about the Harmony before that, which would still give me a 1 in some odd chance results. Which is why I opted for the Amnio. 

jennielee123

Thank you for the prayers and well wishes. I haven't really told many people about what's going on it's not a very easy conversation to have. 

Cheekers2010

gradschoolmom1234 said:

How did they determine that you were high risk? Was it from a blood test like panorama? If you haven't had one of those tests, that might be a good place to start, even before the amnio, but I'm assuming that maybe that's how they determined you were high risk... I can only imagine how frightened you are in making these decisions. I'll be saying lots of prayers for you and your baby. 

This is a great place to start before having an amino. The cell free DNA tests (harmony, panorama, materniti21) are more accurate then the testing you have done so far but do not have the risk of miscarriage that amino does.

Annya26

I haven't been through this but you have my thoughts and prayers. I know a lot of people who have had amnio done without issues - hopefully you will be in that group as well.

I would have needed a conclusive result too, I would need to know and prepare.

haleyusf

I know this is a completely personal decision, but without any visible markers on the ultrasound and only a 1:45 chance, and since you won't terminate regardless, is the amnio really going to help you? It seems like further ultrasounds down the road will be able to give you more information and be way less invasive. ((hugs))

PacoCat33

I'm sorry you are dealing with this! Lots of hugs being sent your way.

jennielee123

I had the amnio yesterday, I'm sorry I thought I had mentioned that, before I even knew the Panorama existed. I am waiting on results. I understand that a lot of women feel that if you are not going to terminate then what's the point in risking it, but going from odds of 1:900 based on age to 1:45 based on blood work was devastating. Not knowing either way is making me an emotional wreck which I know can not be good for me or the baby.

Cheekers2010

jennielee123 said:

I had the amnio yesterday, I'm sorry I thought I had mentioned that, before I even knew the Panorama existed. I am waiting on results. I understand that a lot of women feel that if you are not going to terminate then what's the point in risking it, but going from odds of 1:900 based on age to 1:45 based on blood work was devastating. Not knowing either way is making me an emotional wreck which I know can not be good for me or the baby.

Oh, sorry. I didn't get that. Well, then. You will know for sure. GL! I hope you get all the info you need to feel prepared whatever the case may be.

FoxiePM

I'm sorry you are going through this. I had the same decision to make with my daughter 10 years ago and went ahead with the amino as well. I like you needed to know. I would have driven myself crazy without it. I hope you have great results like I did.

hellopartyof5

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Everything will be fine, good luck with the results!

haleyusf

I didn't realize you'd had it done already. Wishing you the best on the results.

path75

Thoughts ands prayers to you. I hope all turns out well. 

CandEChicago

No advice to give to you other than what has been provided by the other posters.  If you are concerned about the risks or feel off, by all means call the doctor over the weekend to help give you some piece of mind there. Otherwise keep us updated once you get the results from your amnio.

BrideLinds

I don't have experience with an amnio but the genetic counselor made the risk seem very low so try not to worry (easier said than done, I know). I'm sorry for your situation and wish you the best. Try to hang in there.

Hfbn2

Sorry you're going through this! I was there just two weeks ago. My chance was 1:32. I had another blood test done called Verifi (similar to harmony) and the results came back great and I am no longer in the high risk category. Hang in there!! good luck with the amnio results

jennielee123

Thank you all so much for the support. You guys rock! 

caden1206

I am sorry you are dealing with this. You.are in my thoughts and prayers.

iloveac

Good luck to you and baby. Prayers are headed your way.

mcr957

Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers for a positive result. 

Southernpeach80

I'm sorry you are going through this and hope that you get great results back! Sending positive thoughts your way!

sarasarat

I was 1:55 after my NT scan - I understand the anxiety for sure!! 1:45 is still around 2% or so, I really leaned on that information while I waited for results xx.

kwikwi8181

So sorry for all the stress that you are going through. I can only imagine how scary it is for someone to tell you thT your baby may be suffering from any abnormality, but to play devil's advocate, Down syndrome certainly isn't the "death sentence" that it used to be. People had no hopes for these kids and now we know better than to underestimate these kids. I know that's easy for me to say since I am not in the position you are- but I work in special education and I have met so many wonderful Downs kids and they are funny and smart and so much fun. If your results come back positive-I would suggest reaching out to a parents' group and being able to share your story and feelings with parents in the same situation. I don't know if any of this is helpful-but I thought I would throw my 2cents in. I hope and pray that you have a happy, healthy baby.

jenkellen

Sending you good vibes and strength while you wait for the results. (((hugs)))

kinneyne

I would have made the same decision as you. My doc told me to get the full genetic work up.. So I did. Waiting for results has to be the worst thing ever! I am exactly like you, if something is wrong then I want to grieve now and be ready when the time comes to be the strong one that the baby needs. It's so hard because I work with peds that have terminal illnesses. Thoughts and prayers sent your way!! Hoping for the best.. All we want are healthy babies!! Stay positive.

jennielee123

So far so good. No cramping bleeding or fluid leakage. Kinda PO'd at my Doctor's office though. I've been feeling the baby move quite a bit for the last week and a half, but over the last two days haven't really felt anything. I know at this stage movement is like that, one day you feel a ton the next nothing. Having just had an Amnio, and also considering that I've had a missed miscarriage at this stage before, it's freaking me out. I called my doctors office to ask if they can do a heartbeat check and the said they don't do them in between appts.  X(

ginger514

Thinking of you and hoping the amnio results come sooner than later so that you can relax and begin to prepare for the baby, no matter what the results are. 

If your doctor's office won't do a heartbeat check (which I think is kind of asinine, especially given everything going on), is there an OB triage you can go to?  My hospital has one that I can go to at any time and it's covered under my maternity plan.  Not sure if that is an option, but I hope you can do something to ease your mind.  Any friends with dopplers??

brittandjp

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this worry. Fingers crossed you get good results back from your amnio. When do you get the results?

jennielee123

Should have the results by the 16th at the latest. Felt some relief earlier when I got a nice big kick from my LO. Thanks for all the support everyone!

jennielee123

Thank you all so much! 

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Southernpeach80

That's wonderful news! Congrats!!

Eliz77

Aw, congratulations on being a step closer to a healthy baby girl! 

Cheekers2010

Wonderful update! Congrats

BrideLinds

Great update!

rshamos

I'm so happy for you!

jennielee123

Thank you everyone. I finally feel like I can breath again.

dreacwaters

I had the amnio done last Monday. The only reason we decided to go forward with the amnio is because I am 39 and will give birth at 40. The waiting is so painful. I'm in agony. Hearing your great news. Gives me hope. This is our first baby and all I can do is hope and pray for the best.

jennielee123

The wait is awful. I am praying that you receive great news as well. I know that it is difficult, damn near impossible, but try to think positivly.

dreacwaters

Thank you jennilee123. I'll take all of the thoughts and prayers I can get

londonmummy

Congratulations on the good news !