LGBT Parenting

A little frustrated/confused right now

Danni_GirlDanni_Girl member
edited July 2014 in LGBT Parenting

I am so incredibly annoyed/upset/blah right now.

 

A bit of the back story….  Back when I was at the clinic in town waiting to get my 3 day blood work done, my NP walks past and starts asking me about my consult in Saskatoon.  I tell her that we might go ahead with US’s and trigger shots since we live so far away.  Back then, which is over a month now, my NP said she would get me the name of a clinic about 1.5 hours away which can do the US’s so I don’t have to go the 4.5 hours to Saskatoon (9 hour round trip).  For weeks now myself and Aurora has been trying to get the name of the clinic so that they can find out if the results can be received within a days’ time.

 

Well…… I finally get the clinics name yesterday, Aurora calls to speak with them, and turns out they don’t even offer follicle tracking.  So here I’ve been waiting for the name of a clinic that doesn’t even offer the service we need!!!   So we are back to square one, either using the LH kit and temp tracking, or we have to go all the way to Saskatoon for a 30 min US and then have to go back again for the IUI.  

 

I talked with Aurora, and they want me to start tracking my LH Tuesday morning, first pee of the morning, which I thought was a ‘no-no’ and if I get a faint line to call, and then track again in the evening.  If I get another line in the evening I should call the afterhours number and leave a message.  She asked me how soon we could get there….  I think they want to do the IUI a day after we get a faint line.  I’m waiting to find out confirmation on that as we are emailing each other because I’m at work and can’t call right now.. But still, that seems too soon.  Shouldn’t I get a dark line before trying an IUI?

 

Oi…. I’m starting to stress.

 

Edit:  I just got confirmation.. 'A faint line just means the hormones are starting to be present before ovulation occurs. No need to retest in evening until Thursday if have a faint line early am if cannot come in until Friday. we will just have to see what happens. However if positive on Thursday am or pm plan to come in on Friday. Either notify us Thursday if possible or leave a message for us on Friday am. Plan to leave to arrive by noon.

 

That makes more sense... I was getting so confused.  This whole process is not easy. 

I'm 35, DW is 33
Together since Dec 2007
Married since 18 June 2011

TTC #1
1st IUI - trigger, 9 July 14 at midnight, IUI - 11 July 14 at noon - BFP!!
10 Dec 14 - Lost our Baby Girl to Hydrops & Cycstic Hygroma due to Turner Syndrome
TTC #2
2nd IUI - hoping to try for our Rainbow in the Spring

Re: A little frustrated/confused right now

  • Hello! We had a lot of issues tracking LH early on, especially with all the nerves/excitement. Some friends of ours gave us a fertility monitor and it took out a lot of the guesswork. You have to use it for one month of tracking before it will give you an accurate positive, but it is worth it... Ultrasounds are ao expensive and with your drive, you may need to make it multiple times if your follies aren't as big as thy want them to be! It took us a while to get the hang of it... But the more help you have the better!

    Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m...  Our perfect little miracle.  Here's how we got here:

    My lovely wife:

    5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN

     

    Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train

    IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN

    IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN

    September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon

    IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013

    December:  Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.

    IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014,  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools.  Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...

    1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!

    Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/ 

  • fertility monitor?  Is that like one of those ClearBlue tests or something completely different?
    I'm 35, DW is 33
    Together since Dec 2007
    Married since 18 June 2011

    TTC #1
    1st IUI - trigger, 9 July 14 at midnight, IUI - 11 July 14 at noon - BFP!!
    10 Dec 14 - Lost our Baby Girl to Hydrops & Cycstic Hygroma due to Turner Syndrome
    TTC #2
    2nd IUI - hoping to try for our Rainbow in the Spring
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  • I can tell you that I always used second pee of the day and it made a big difference my first pee this past cycle no smiley but I had a gut feeling so peed again and got a positive and thank god I did check again because it worked.  Also I highly recommend clearblue digital ovulation trackers.  I got them off of Amazon and saved some money that way but I think it is worth splurging on a more expensive ovulation predictor.   A 4.5 hour drive is so long, I understand your frustration since you thought there was a solution and you were misinformed. 

    Me: 30  DP: 30

    TTC#1

    IUI#1 9/26/13 BFN

    IUI#2 10/26/13 BFP beta #1 99 #2 456

    2/20/2014 Brynlee Madeline is taken too soon at 19weeks she was perfect

    IUI#3 6/10/14 BFP beta #1 276 beta #2 722 20w A/S shows we are having a girl

     

     

     

  • fertility monitor?  Is that like one of those ClearBlue tests or something completely different?

    A fertility monitor is something that clear blue easy makes. They are probably around $100-$150 but they are digital and show you a better representation of your surge and when it's coming. Like @doodah1013‌ said, you have to use them a while to get them to accurately track you and the sticks are a little pricey but it was worth it for us!

    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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