LGBT Parenting

To GTKY, or Not GTKY...that is the question!

edited July 2014 in LGBT Parenting
Hi all,
I am wondering how folks feel about the Friday GTKY thread. Typically I do 4 questions + "what's up this weekend." Over the months, participation has dropped a bit and I wonder if it's a thread worth keeping up. This poll is to get your opinion on if we should continue GTKY Fridays, or not, and get your feedback. I will NOT take it personally if we want to cancel this thread!
Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

It's been a long road to here...
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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To GTKY, or Not GTKY...that is the question! 37 votes

Yes, I LOVE GTKY Friday! KEEP IT!
21% 8 votes
No, I think it's a stale thread and we should no longer do it.
8% 3 votes
Either way, I like to read it, and sometimes participate.
48% 18 votes
No opinion - I just want to see the results.
16% 6 votes
Keep it, but I have feedback/ideas to improve it (see below).
5% 2 votes

Re: To GTKY, or Not GTKY...that is the question!

  • I don't always participate, but I typically read through the responses. If I don't participate, it's usually because I don't have interesting responses! Some of your questions are hard! ;)

    I have wondered if you would keep this up after Simone is born. Not that having a baby keeps you from Bumping, but it may be a bit harder for you to reliably post each week.

    One option is just to keep it at 2 questions - one random question and the typical weekend question. Makes it a bit easier on everyone.
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  • I enjoy reading but can't say I will reliably participate. I like the idea of reducing the # of questions.
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • @ATXMommas and @ball.and.chain - I was thinking the same thing - maybe 1 or 2 questions + what's up for the weekend. It'd be easier for sure! I'll see what else comes in. I may see if I can get someone to handle it for a month or so after Simone is born, and then go from there. Once I"m back at work in January it should be easy to keep it up... but time will tell! Thanks for the responses so far!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • I like the idea of 1-2 questions... So silly... But it seems less daunting. Which if GTKY Friday is my biggest worry, I think I am doin' alright!

    Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m...  Our perfect little miracle.  Here's how we got here:

    My lovely wife:

    5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN

     

    Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train

    IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN

    IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN

    September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon

    IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013

    December:  Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.

    IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014,  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools.  Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...

    1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!

    Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/ 

  • I appreciate the suggestions above and my thoughts are along the same vein.  Sometimes it can be too much for me to type more than very much, and I read some but it is hard for me to sit down long enough to read a ton. 

    Thanks for your hard work!

    CageyMack
    37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.

    5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered.  All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd.  4 fertilized.   Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853.  Yay!


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    "Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing

  • I love the GTKY - but I admit sometimes read or respond over the weekend when the Bump is quiet but I still want to "stop by".

    I love learning more about folks though so I'd hate to see it go :-)
  • I like to read it but I worry about the amount of personal information I am putting out on a public forum if I engage in it every week. Maybe I am a bit silly about it but that's why I don't post to it very often.
    Same sex couple, Married 8/6/11
    Baby Oliver born 11/27/13

    TTC stats with donor sperm...
    IUI #1 with trigger, 1/4/13 - BFN
    IUI #2 with trigger, 2/1/13 BFN
    IUI #3 with tigger, 2/28/12 BFP EDD 11/21/13
  • I vote keep it up in some way.  There are a lot of new faces here and a lot of people that have been around awhile and although I only participate if I have good answers for the questions I like to read responses to get to know everyone better. 

    Me: 30  DP: 30

    TTC#1

    IUI#1 9/26/13 BFN

    IUI#2 10/26/13 BFP beta #1 99 #2 456

    2/20/2014 Brynlee Madeline is taken too soon at 19weeks she was perfect

    IUI#3 6/10/14 BFP beta #1 276 beta #2 722 20w A/S shows we are having a girl

     

     

     

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