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I'm back (loss mentioned)

mattandloramattandlora member
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I just announced my BFP about a week ago - a surprise since we only BD on O-3 before DH got sick.

Then the cramping started yesterday. I lost the pregnancy today. Just a day shy of 5 weeks. This is the exact same day I lost my first pregnancy too. So sad. :-(

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Current Age 35, DH 33

Married 9/2011

BFP 8/2012, Miscarried 9/2012

BFP 9/2012, DS 6/2013

BFP 6/2014, Miscarried 7/2014

BFP 7/2014, DD 4/2015


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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. It's ok to be sad. I will kick the universe for you so you can rest and recover.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

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  • marijaa333marijaa333 member
    I'm so sorry to hear your news. I hope you can rest and recover so you can focus on the future. Hugs.
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    I'm so sorry.  Please be gentle with yourself.
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • mattandloramattandlora member
    Thanks everyone. We're on vacation right now too. I can't decide if that makes this worse (can't relax and enjoy our time here) or better (don't need an excuse to stay in bed all day).

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    Current Age 35, DH 33

    Married 9/2011

    BFP 8/2012, Miscarried 9/2012

    BFP 9/2012, DS 6/2013

    BFP 6/2014, Miscarried 7/2014

    BFP 7/2014, DD 4/2015


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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • kelley72kelley72 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope you allow yourself some time to relax, and cry/ grieve as needed.  Best wishes for your healing!
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  • latershraderlatershrader member
    So sorry to hear this. I hope you can find some peace through this ordeal. Big hugs!
    *TW below*
    Me: 40 DH: 38
    TTC since November 2012
    BFP IUI Cycle 2 Dec 2016
    Baby Boy Due Sept 12 2017
    Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!


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  • mdogan29mdogan29 member
    Very sorry to hear!! :(  Ugh!! The same thing happened to me, my MC happened to me 1 week before vacation and I was so down the whole time, had a hard time enjoying myself. But you didn't do anything to cause it, so don't beat yourself up... I was SO hard on myself thinking I did something wrong. **hugs**
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    ME: 38, DH: 42, stopped BCPS 1/2013, TTC #1 2/2013, AMH 0.4, started acupuncture: 7/2013,
    BFP: 10/07/2013; MC 10/15/2013 @ 7 wks (natural), focused on health issues for 7 months.
    TTC again: 6/2014, 2nd round Letrozole, BFP 7/7/2014!!! --- EDD 3/18/2015!!!

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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
    I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you find some peace and can then move forward as you feel it is best. 
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                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • NeonNoonNeonNoon member
    Very sorry to hear this.  Hugs.
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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I'm so sorry to hear this.  It just sucks.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • kindershlitzkindershlitz member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member
    I am so, so sorry to hear this! Please take care of yourself and try to enjoy yourself, if possible.
    Me: 38 ~  DH: 38 ~   DD: 8
    TTC #2 since March/April 2014.
     
     
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  • Lesliem0901Lesliem0901 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.
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    TTC#1 since June 2012

    Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA

    BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14 

    IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN

    On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15.  Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F.  Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.

    On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.

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  • jchickiemjchickiem member
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  • gabbagalgabbagal member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. Sending thoughts and hugs
    Me: 41, DH: 42, married 2009
    BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
    BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    I'm so sorry, @mattandlora. Sending a hug.

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  • bumpuser10258960bumpuser10258960 member
    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope your vacation can be a distraction for you and an opportunity for you to relax and heal. My thoughts are with you. 
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    ((((Hugs))))) sorry bout the m/c. Those that have been threw this ordeal, knows how it really feels. It sucks, I was mad at myself & the world. Time heals all wounds, when ur ready to TTC again good luck
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  • Sherby613Sherby613 member
    So sorry to hear about your loss. Sending hugs and well wishes your way. 
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    Natural cycle BFP 7/09; "baby bear" born 3/10
    Natural cycles starting 7/10; two cycles with clomid = BFP 12/10; m/c 2/2011 
    Cycle #3 with clomid = BFP 5/11; "baby lamb" born 2/12
    Natural cycles starting Nov 2013; 1/13 chemical pregnancy
    RE Apr 2014 Dx = hypothryoidism (Rx for synthroid)
    BFP 6/2014 Baby #3 due Feb 2015
     
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  • RadiantlyRadiantly member
    I am so sorry honey :(
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
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