TTC after 35

What's your favorite time of day to BD?

Another fun TMI question! What time of day do you prefer to BD? Are you an early bird girl? A late night owl? A nooner?

I love sex around lunch time, and preferrably, on my lunch break! My fiance and I work only 5 minutes from the house, and will often go home at lunch and 'play'. ;)
I also like it around 9pm or 10pm when I'm not too tired and can have a longer session of fun without worrying about it cutting too close to bedtime.

Re: What's your favorite time of day to BD?

  • I so wish we could be nooners! We work only a mile from each other, but we live like 25 mins away, so that's definitely not possible for us. I also prefer the 9-10 hour for our more "drawn out sessions", but we've been occasionally having quickies in the am between gym/shower time and leaving for work. This is a great option for those days when I really don't "feel like BDing" but know we need to for timing purposes, because we can't afford to waste time ;)
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  • I prefer to do it at night after DD is asleep. There have been times when DH is home and I come home at lunch and we have a 'nooner.' LoL
    Me: 38 ~  DH: 38 ~   DD: 8
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  • My favorite is the morning or middle of the night, if I can pull off some segmented sleep, which is what my body would always do if left to my own devices (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Segmented_sleep).

    Husband is a night owl so we tend to go for late mornings or very late evenings.

    There's also something about going out for a nice meal, having a glass of wine and letting one thing lead to another. Not the most original date idea, but there's a reason it's a cliche!
  • When the Dr tells us to have sex! :-)


    I honestly will be so glad when the day comes and we can have sex when we want. I prefer morning quickies.
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  • Right now, I'm all for morning quickies so I can more or less sleep through it. Depressing, but oh well.
    Me: 38 DH: 40 TTC#1 (and likely only) since 9/13. Saw RE 5/14, SA good, AMH 2.36, FSH 7.2, estradiol 69.6 indicating good egg reserve. Using OPKs. First Letrozole cycle 6/14, a burst cyst and a BFN. Second Letrozole cycle 7/14, BFN. 

    Update 11/14 - had laparoscopy 10/28, good news is that my uterus and left tube look good, and they were able to drain the cyst on my left ovary. Bad news is that right tube and ovary have endo and scar tissue, so they're pretty useless.. Best news is that we finally have some answers and a path forward. Taking 7.5 mg letrozole CD 2-6 to put that good left ovary through its paces. 

    UPDATE 2/2015 - We switched to another fertility clinic, but fortunately we don't have to start all over. We're doing two cycles of Clomid plus IUI, if neither of those take, we'll do IVF in April, potentially with ICSI. (DH's SA has gone downhill, likely due to excessive exercise.) IUI#1 2/25/15....
  • @MamaBear904 - Ohhhh...you can STILL get wild on your lunch break without having a home to go to. As Digital Underground says: "I once got busy in a Burger King bathroom!" ;)

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  • I'm boring.  Night only.  lol
  • well, ideally late morning early afternoon, but that can only occur on a Sunday or every once in a while on a Saturday so I take it when I can!  We typically have quick early evening intercourse or longer/better play time sex at night about 9-10ish... now if my dh could recover fast enough and I was awake enough I'd get in on some early morning action but that is very rare!
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    lol @lgsdesigner! Did we not just have a talk about leftover "juices"? lol Think about it the next time you're at that Burger King! ;)
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  • @MamaBear904 - Yes, I believe we did! lol  
    In all seriousness...I never got busy in a Burger King bathroom. But-- other forbidden places, I have. ;)
  • We don't have a favorite time…..pretty much anytime! lol. Last time it technically wasn't BD cause the timing wasn't right we were just doing the deed cause we wanted to (hubby had been gone for a week!) and that was smack mid day right when he got home, lol.

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  • I probably prefer around 10 p.m.

    @lgsdesigner, you get some major street cred for quoting Digital Underground!

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  • Because of DS we bd at night when he goes to sleep. Before we had him we would do it in the am or night
  • Saturday mornings or early afternoon when I get home from work. That way DH can BD my brains out. Then I can have a short nap and a shower and go on with the day.

     

  • After DD is asleep. We have a really small house so controlling noise is unfortunately an issue. I really miss my "wild side" but maybe someday we will get to be more freaky again. ;) 

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