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June 24th

Hey ladies! I've been so busy today between sitting in on interviews at work this morning, my RE appointment this afternoon, and dinner tonight for a friend who is moving out of state, so this is going to be a post and run. I don't have time to write personal messages to everyone right now, but I promise I'll be back on later tonight and tomorrow to respond to everyone.

How are you all doing this week?  

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LSS ☆☆ 1/04/13 @Poppy715 ♥Addie♥ ☆☆ 

LSS ☆☆ 1/10/14 @ikrystal ♥Twin Boys♥ ☆☆ 

EDD ☆☆ 1/24/14 @sunnydaysarehere ☆☆ 
EDD ☆☆ 1/27/14 @BethKate2 ☆☆  Hi!

EDD ☆☆ 1/5/15 @Amybunny30 ☆☆  

EDD ☆☆ 1/12/15 @rslh10 ☆☆  

EDD ☆☆ 1/12/15 @Lalalady54 ☆☆  

EDD ☆☆ 1/21/15 @Greeneyes842 ☆☆

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BethKate2

@HoldingOutHope, I'm trying to add your name in there, but it's doing the same thing it did to me last week with Greeneyes. Stupid Bump.

Lalalady54

@BethKate2‌ thank you for posting in the middle of your clearly very busy day. Hope the day goes great.

AFM, I am doing so much better this week. I have ran the last 4 days, which I am completely amazed that I managed to go out today bc I dislocated my patella last night and had to reduce it (It was the first time it has ever happened to me and it was crazy, but super cool to put back into place and minus some swelling it felt mostly better within 12 hours!)

I mentioned in the good morning thread that I got pathology today from my D&C, I was hopeful it would give me some reason I could grasp onto as to why our baby didn't want to keep growing, but it was inconclusive. Either way it gave me some final closure, which I wasn't expecting but I think it is because besides the bills that are yet to come in I realize nothing else related to this pregnancy should pop up in my patient portal, which is a relief to me.

Anyways my goal is to get to trying as soon as I can. My body has for the most part stopped bleeding, hooray!! Now to just get to July 14 so I can get my labs drawn!!

rslh10

@lalalady54 I'm sorry you didn't get more conclusive news, but i'm glad that the information gave you that closure! ((hugs))

@bethkate2 Thanks for the check in, busy woman! I read your updated RE post, and am glad that you have a plan!

AFM- AF came on Friday night about 9:45. I called my dr, and she asked me if I wanted to move on to another medicated cycle, and I said yes. I think I'm ready to jump right back in. I started Clomid CD3-7 (on sunday) and I will be seeing her later this week so we can order my trigger shot. I will be monitored for O via U/S and we will see how this goes I also had a nice TP to my dentist office today. The billing department made me cry (which I wasn't expecting). BUT! DH and I just bought brand new stainless appliances tonight, so I'm so happy for those bad boys to come on Friday, and for my white, all different brand name appliances to leave!

Big hugs to any of you ladies who need them  

BethKate2

@Lalalady54, I'm glad you feel like you got some closure. Good luck as you move forward!

@rslh10, I'm glad your period showed up. Good luck with this cycle, and enjoy those appliances once they come in!

@Amybunny30, I'm glad you're feeling good physically, but you're right that your sadness is probably what's making you feel tired.  After my loss, the thing that made me feel a lot better was taking day trips with my H. He had a vacation from work a few weeks after my surgery, and we did a ton of fun things. That quality time together made me feel so much better. Maybe you and your H could plan some fun things to do just the two of you.

ikrystal

Thanks for posting the check in.  I have a beta check on Friday for my FET and we are hoping for good news!

I hope everyone is doing well!

BethKate2

@ikrystal, good luck on Friday!! I've got everything crossed for you!

@HoldingOutHope, good luck with your post-op and all of the testing next week. Hopefully you have your results back for your RE appointment so that you can use all of the info to come up with a plan.

Lalalady54

@cfearsy I also didn't think to ask for it day of, but with my high risk history and my DH and I both working in health care I think my peri takes extra great care of us. I'm not sure if it's the standard protocol, but I was glad to see the report show up in my email.

BethKate2

@CFearsy, Welcome to the check-in. I'm so sorry for your loss.

@Greeneyes842, I'm glad you had fun on your trip last week, and I'm glad your period showed up. Good luck once you start TTC again!

PinkCamino

ikrystal said:

Thanks for posting the check in.  I have a beta check on Friday for my FET and we are hoping for good news!

I hope everyone is doing well!

Sorry to barge into your check in Beth!

But this really bothers me. @ikrystal you knew you were pregnant when you posted this. Why would you do this to these lovely ladies?

ikrystal

You'll notice that I never posted a bfp announcement here. I didn't mean to offend anyone and if I did I truly am sorry. But that wasn't my intent. And since I posted before beta I thought that was ok. Everyone here is TTC so I didn't think it was a secret I was cycling this month. Please, if you have an issue feel free to pm me.

PinkCamino

ikrystal said:

You'll notice that I never posted a bfp announcement here. I didn't mean to offend anyone and if I did I truly am sorry. But that wasn't my intent. And since I posted before beta I thought that was ok. Everyone here is TTC so I didn't think it was a secret I was cycling this month. Please, if you have an issue feel free to pm me.

I know that your intentions were not bad. But, from the perspective of the ladies who are still here it is a shitty thing to do.

You also responded to other threads.

To be honest, this reply in this check in led your fellow ladies to believe you were not pregnant when you actually already knew you were. Knowing you were cycling isn't an excuse. You worded it in a very sly why - hoping for a good outcome hunh? You already knew you were KU.

The moral of the story is pretending or keeping your BFP a secret and continuing to post here is not okay. A line is a line, a bfp is a bfp with or without betas.

 

ikrystal

PinkCamino I am sending you a PM.  I would rather not drag this out on this thread. If I hurt anyone, then I apologize.  I didn't realize what I posted was wrong, I did not post on any other threads on TTCAL, and I really was just waiting until beta for any definite news. 

mpiemont

Hi everyone- first of all I just want to say how sorry I am that all of you have had to experience a loss. This is my first miscarriage and it has been more painful than I could have imagined. So as far as an intro goes- Surprise BFP 5/16/14, light brown spotting 6/16/14, first OB appt 6/24 (9w1d by Ovulation date), no heartbeat and baby measuring 8w. Had confirmation US the next day. D&C today 6/27/14. So for now I'm going to be in the "waiting" category- waiting for AF. Dr said we can TTC after 1 cycle. EDD would have been 1/26/15. I'm glad to have this group for support. @bethkate2 - can you add me? Thank you so much. Looking forward to getting to know everyone.

BethKate2

@ikrystal, Congratulations, but @PinkCamino is right. It was unfair to post here about how you're hoping for good news when you had already gotten your BFP. I can imagine what that limbo must be like while waiting to see what your betas look like, but you got your definite news when you got your bfp.  

Good luck to you.

BethKate2

@mpiedmont, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome to the check-in. I'll add you to the list for next week.