Good morning ladies!
It's that time again. This is our bi-weekly check in, condensed version.
Feel free to let us know how life is; you can b!tch, you can moan, you
can brag, you can cry, whatever you want. Enjoy!
QOTW - If you could choose any fictional character, who would you be and why?

The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise

Re: Bi-Weekly Wine and Cheese Party
H brought up adoption again last night. The ball really is in his court since his company is supposed to have "amazing" benefits that cover a lot of adoption costs. He was going to check into this in January, now it's "after we move in." He is set on getting an infant and I don't think he has a realistic expectation on just how long a wait list for that is. I Googled some international adoption agencies and Haiti looks like a viable option for us. The biggest downside is that the process can take 18 months to 24 months and from my understanding, the child you are adopting is matched to you fairly early in that time frame - so they are stuck in Haiti waiting for the local court process to happen during that time. It just seems crazy to me.
H also brought up donor eggs. The plan on that front is to see an RE after the move-in and find out costs and our options. H floored me when he said we need to find out how much a surragote would cost. I pointed out that as far as we know, I could be the gestational carrier. He is apparently worried that I can't and would rather not spend $10k to $15k on donor eggs only to suffer another second term loss. While I understand his fear and concern it hurt that he put it in terms of the money - be afraid of another loss, I'm okay with that, but don't be afraid of it from a financial standpoint.
Either way, he wants to find out the cost of both and what we would be facing. I get that. He also reminded me of our third option: just me and him. I will admit to feeling a little guilty when he does that because I feel like he thinks that I think that just the two of us for the rest of our lives is not good enough.
QOTW - Why did I pick a hard one? I'm in a Jane Austen mood right now so I will go with Elizabeth Bennet. Even though I really would not want to be a woman back in that time period, I've always loved Pride and Prejudice and being the heroine in a classic love story is not a bad life.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
Hi ladies.
I'm doing ok...waiting to O, probably Oing tomorrow or the next day. This will be a weird cycle...I got pregnant with my DD on June 23rd, 2012. So, it's totally possible to get KU and have the exact same due date. I will also be induced at 37 weeks, and my daughter was born at 36 weeks 5 days, so it would be also possible for the same birthday. Which is fine, and I would be BEYOND thrilled to be pregnant...it will just be very bitter sweet. So, we'll see!
Hope everyone is doing well! We're having great weather in New England!
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BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013
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Let's see... since my last Wine & Cheese I found out that the tissue removed from the Hysteroscopy D&C came back as a partial molar and I am benched for a total of 4 cycles. I am currently not on BCP because my RE wants to do some testing after my next AF and he didn't want BCP hormones to F up my results. After the testing, he will put me on BCP for 2 more cycles. At least while I am benched, I can continue with RE testing.
@buggirl72 - Huge congrats on the house!! Settle in for a long stay. I am glad to hear that YH is really open to alternative methods of becoming a parents. MH and I have discussed adoption as well. We have friends who recently went through domestic infant adoption. We are not at the point of making the adoption decision yet but it is not off the table.
@shandorfml2 - GL this cycle. Wow, it really would be a weird feeling to have the same conception / due dates as your last loss. I feel the same way you do - I will take a healthy baby any day of the year.
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Current Status: IVF with ICSI and PGS
Genetic, RPL, SA and Fertility testing = Normal/Good HSG = All Clear
BFP #1 12.30.2012 || Blighted Ovum 02.05.2013 || D&C 02.11.2013
BFP #2 09.10.2013 || c/p 09.12.2013
BFP #3 12.1.2013 || mm/c 01.15.14 || D&C 01.21.14 chromosome abnormality
May 2014: Residual HCG and retained tissue found
05.13.2014: Hysteroscopy D&C to find and remove retained tissue
June 2014: Tissue sample results indicate a partial molar pregnancy
May - Aug 2014: TTA for monitoring and testing
08.21.2014: Hysteroscopy to remove minor scar tissue - the result of 3 D&Cs
Sept/Oct: IUI #1 Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
Oct/Nov: IUI #2 Femara + Ovidrel = BFN
Nov/Dec: IUI #3 Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
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@BookishMomma saw on the main board your betas still arent below 5. Darn. ((Big hugs)))
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BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
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@MyFirstRaspberry - OMG! I am so glad they got that tissue removed and found out it was a partial molar. ((((Hugs)))) for being benched but I'm glad you will be able to get your testing done during that time frame.
@Hawkward - Hi!
@BookishMomma - I'm so sorry your betas still have not dropped below five ((((hugs)))).
@HeyMrsPotter - thank you for the recommendation and I'm so glad that cyst is gone!
@LaRomana09 - FX this is your cycle and you won't need to worry about moving on to clomid and/or femara!
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
But I'm chugging along on BCP, waiting for my first baseline u/s on the 18th.
TTC since April 2012
BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013
BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013
6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)
IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab
IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!
FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN
Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus
IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
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BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013
Please be our rainbow!!
**All AL Welcome**
@bugggirl72- Congrats on the house! Have a great first night tonight! And it's a very hard decision you and YH need to make, but I'm glad you're going to be getting more info. It's such an emotional journey.
@shandorfml2- FX for good timing this cycle! I can see why you feel mixed about it.
@myfirstraspberry- I'm sorry for the news on the test results and for being benched (((hugs)))
@Bookishmomma- FX that your betas are under 5 soon. I hope AF shows soon so you can have some closure.
@HeyMrsPotter- I'm glad to hear the cyst is gone. FX for a successful IUI this cycle
@LaRomana- I'm sorry to see a BFN on your chart today (((hugs)))
TTC since April 2012
BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013
BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013
6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)
IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab
IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!
FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN
Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus
IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
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