Third-Party Reproduction

For those using a surrogate & work time off question

For those of you using a surrogate, how does your work handle your leave after the birth?    Looks like my company gives maternity disability which is paid only if you give birth or one month paid if you adopt, but nothing other than up to 12 weeks unpaid leave for using a surrogate.   It feels discriminatory to those with fertility issues.  Thanks for sharing.

Re: For those using a surrogate & work time off question

  • My FIM and current IM are both teachers.  I delivered the first surro baby in mid May so she had summer vaca, and we're gearing up for a transfer in early-mid August, so again I'd be due at the end of the school year.  My current IM teaches all AP classes and said that all of her stuff is done in April.  She's planning to come here at the end of my potential pg and wait for labor. 

    GSx1 - 05/13/2013
    GSx2 for T&B - EDD 6/21/2015 - They're having a GIRL!

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  • It depends on the state and job. I live in Illinois and I get the same as if I had given birth (12w paid time off). I am extremely grateful!
    TTC #1 since 12/2010 DH: MFI, cancer survivor Me: Resected septate uterus, lap treated mild endo, tubes open, ovulate on own, autoimmune disease 3 Failed IUI's (2/2012, 4/2012, 6/2012) 
    IVF #1 August 2012. BFP! Beta #1 56.7 Beta #2 150 One baby, one heartbeat on 9/20/12! no h/b @7w6d. dandc @8w0d
    FET #1 December 2012, BFN
    FET #2 February 2013, no embies survived thaw
    IVF #2, BFP #2, Loss #2 March 2013, Scar tissue discovered, RPL testing,
    IVF #3, BFP #3, Loss #3 (twins) September 2013
    Hostile ute, moving onto Gestational Carrier!

    GC/FET #1 of 1 5AA blast and 1 compacted blast, February 2014, BFP #4 on 3/1/2014!
    6w u/s 1 bean with h/b of 145 bpm, 8w u/s 187 bpm
    EDD 11/7/14. Please, please, please stick little one!

    Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!

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