FFFC

uncharted01

Or should we call it FFFFFC (Far-from-flame-free Friday confessions)?

Let 'em out ladies!

uncharted01

Mine is that I seriously, SERIOUSLY considered telling my girlfriend I was having a boy without knowing just to get her off my back because she's adamant about me having a girl. I chose to ignore her instead but I kinda wish I had.

Maelara

I'm on a very strict diet (aka, eat health for life, lol) and I had a banana split last night. I've been wanting one all week. My DH finally talked me into it XD

uncharted01

@Maelara - maybe another FFFC for me? I don't like bananas! [-X

ETA: But glad you enjoyed it!!!

NLJ82

This isn't a giant confession really, but just throwing this out there....The 2nd Tri board is horrific. I typically stay on the N14 24/7 because I liked to be talked to like an adult. Thanks ladies ;-)

NLJ82

Econosaurus said:

I haven't been able to actually say "I'm pregnant" to anybody. Instead I beat around the bush or use weird euphemisms like a socially inept weirdo and it makes everybody super uncomfortable. I'm an immature jackass about the whole thing which makes zero sense since this wasn't exactly a surprise. So while you're all bubbly and making cutesy announcements I'll be over here making everybody cringe.

Same. I purposely don't act excited. It's too weird for me. I'm just like "yea...cool" & I always fall back on goofily saying "yep, got knocked up I guess"...also not a surprise to me lol

kjmommy1214

@chmwilliams‌ I didn't start using LO's name until we had a good-looking scan yesterday. I will use it a little more but not all the time.

Maelara

chmwilliams said:

@chmwilliams‌ I didn't start using LO's name until we had a good-looking scan yesterday. I will use it a little more but not all the time.

I think it is my pgal brain. I sometimes call her Beasty. I think toward the end it will get easier.

I still called N baby until she was a month old. For some reason I just couldn't use her name.

kjmommy1214

chmwilliams said:

Maelara said:

chmwilliams said:

JKVogt said:

@chmwilliams‌ I didn't start using LO's name until we had a good-looking scan yesterday. I will use it a little more but not all the time.

I think it is my pgal brain. I sometimes call her Beasty. I think toward the end it will get easier.

I still called N baby until she was a month old. For some reason I just couldn't use her name.

I am glad I posted this. I was feeling guilty about it. I feel better now.

If the Beasty reference is from Maleficent, you may be my favorite bumpie! I started calling K Beasty after seeing the movie.

NLJ82

Maelara said:

chmwilliams said:

@chmwilliams‌ I didn't start using LO's name until we had a good-looking scan yesterday. I will use it a little more but not all the time.

I think it is my pgal brain. I sometimes call her Beasty. I think toward the end it will get easier.

I still called N baby until she was a month old. For some reason I just couldn't use her name.

I may always call my child 'Baby Reptar'

wildflower75

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Maelara

wildflower75 said:

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Oh no!! I have to go look and make sure I love titted it. I try to do everyone's. ETA - so, , my eyes were at it again and I read your post as because people (in general) didnt love tit your post. Now I look like I think I'm one of those 'certain' people. Lol! Sorry! I swear I'm not that obsessed with myself!

Maelara

wildflower75 said:

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Your picture doesn't show up. That's probably why

uncharted01

excitedpreggo12 said:

uncharted01 first let me tell you I love the sign in your siggy. I may steal the idea. 

@excitedpreggo12 - Awwe thanks! My plan was to make new signs as the pregnancy progressed... but then I didn't. I suck lol

wildflower75

Maelara said:

wildflower75 said:

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Your picture doesn't show up. That's probably why

OHHHH on mobile my photo doesn't show?? ARGH!!! OH well.. not sure how to fix that

You did love it, by the way

Silly I know... I got over it

Maelara

wildflower75 said:

Maelara said:

wildflower75 said:

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Your picture doesn't show up. That's probably why

OHHHH on mobile my photo doesn't show?? ARGH!!! OH well.. not sure how to fix that

I guess technically because Im on my iPad you can call that mobile but I've never had a problem seeing things that pc users can see. Im not sure how you can fix it either

DoubleUp8

Maelara said:

I'm on a very strict diet (aka, eat health for life, lol) and I had a banana split last night. I've been wanting one all week. My DH finally talked me into it XD

It had fruit in it!

Maelara

DoubleUp8 said:

Maelara said:

I'm on a very strict diet (aka, eat health for life, lol) and I had a banana split last night. I've been wanting one all week. My DH finally talked me into it XD

It had fruit in it!


It did plus extra hot fudge!

lisaren

wildflower75 said:

Confession.. I actually started to feel bad because certain people didn't love tit my HDBD... it was my first time posting my bump and I was feeling vulnerable... But then I put my big girl panties on (they are black lace thongs) and did this...

Lovebug, I could not see your picture

lisaren

Fwiw, you're a bump crush of mine. Not that you care, but yeah

wildflower75

Dammit... so perhaps my confession is I am gif and pic challenged apparently!

Thanks friends!

wallygirl

My FFFC is that I can never think of anything I feel is FFFC worthy which in turn makes me feel like a dull boring person. I promise I'm not or at least I don't think I am.

wallygirl

excitedpreggo12 said:

Confession:

I have all 3 books of Fifty Shades of Gray and I have not read them yet. I can't join in on the GTKY thread because of it.

*don't hurt me guys*

Oh yea I'm very much into erotica, I just can't find the umph to pick up those overly-hyped books. Why is this one such a big deal when they've been telling great erotica for years... 

I thought they were horribly written and that made them EXTREMELY difficult for me to read. So I'm honestly not a fan because I just couldn't get past the poor writing.

Maelara

excitedpreggo12 said:

Confession:

I have all 3 books of Fifty Shades of Gray and I have not read them yet. I can't join in on the GTKY thread because of it.

*don't hurt me guys*

Oh yea I'm very much into erotica, I just can't find the umph to pick up those overly-hyped books. Why is this one such a big deal when they've been telling great erotica for years... 

I don't own them and I haven't read them. I also have no interest whatsoever.

Maelara

FhSTAR81 said:

This is lame but I just about puked changing DDs bandiad. Lol

So not lame. DH kissed me goodbye this morning and the smell of his tooth paste sent me straight to the bathroom. Poor guy

Maelara

Econosaurus said:

Am I the boy one that got to see the magic fountain tits? I feel special!

Also hooray for someone else using the phrase. I dropped it once and it was less than warmly received!

She used it to describe herself, not someone else I think that's where it went wrong the first time. Ok, I don't THINK that's where it went wrong. I know it is.

venussapphire

Part of me wants it to start pouring rain so we can't go camping this weekend. I love camping even in the rain...but DH's family is all going to be there  We just saw them all last weekend for DD's party and I don't want to see them for a long time.

Plus just last night I discovered SIL had posted a bunch of party pics and of DD on her facebook. We don't post ANY pictures (I have good reasons..certain people) so why does she think its ok to post pictures of other peoples kids. This is the fourth time we've had to talk to her about it. New rule: she's not taking any pictures of DD.

ugh i just really don't like them 

mommymeg143

We had an event last week and the title sponsor loaned me a 2015 Suburban to drive around for it.   You guise...I took a peak at the price tag and it was $70,000!!  During lunch, I had an intense craving for a sonic egg and cheese burrito.  So...I took the suburban through the drive thru, parked and ate it.   Fast forward maybe 30 seconds and it all came back up EVERYWHERE in the car!! I was mortified.  DH and I scrubbed that car clean but i'm still worried that they are going to find out.   How freaking embarassing!!

mommymeg143

Maelara said:

This is lame but I just about puked changing DDs bandiad. Lol

So not lame. DH kissed me goodbye this morning and the smell of his tooth paste sent me straight to the bathroom. Poor guy

DH bought orange flavored mouthwash.   Imagine that kissing you every morning.  haha!!

wildflower75

venussapphire said:

Part of me wants it to start pouring rain so we can't go camping this weekend. I love camping even in the rain...but DH's family is all going to be there  We just saw them all last weekend for DD's party and I don't want to see them for a long time.

Plus just last night I discovered SIL had posted a bunch of party pics and of DD on her facebook. We don't post ANY pictures (I have good reasons..certain people) so why does she think its ok to post pictures of other peoples kids. This is the fourth time we've had to talk to her about it. New rule: she's not taking any pictures of DD.

ugh i just really don't like them 

Posting pics of your child??? Without permission? And after you've already talked to her about it!? That's beyond rude!! I'm soo aggravated for you right now...

mamatohne

I am truly terrified to be having a girl. I have two nieces and they love me to death. But my motherly role models sucked at life (except my mil who passed away). I don't really know what a healthy mother daughter relationship "looks like".
I think I also can't come around to the idea of a girl because I feel like at my next ultra sound my ob is going to tell me it's a boy. (The tech is the one who told me girl)

mander82

MeganMullikin said:

We had an event last week and the title sponsor loaned me a 2015 Suburban to drive around for it.   You guise...I took a peak at the price tag and it was $70,000!!  During lunch, I had an intense craving for a sonic egg and cheese burrito.  So...I took the suburban through the drive thru, parked and ate it.   Fast forward maybe 30 seconds and it all came back up EVERYWHERE in the car!! I was mortified.  DH and I scrubbed that car clean but i'm still worried that they are going to find out.   How freaking embarassing!!

 

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You Win.      

^:)^

venussapphire

wildflower75 said:

venussapphire said:

Part of me wants it to start pouring rain so we can't go camping this weekend. I love camping even in the rain...but DH's family is all going to be there  We just saw them all last weekend for DD's party and I don't want to see them for a long time.

Plus just last night I discovered SIL had posted a bunch of party pics and of DD on her facebook. We don't post ANY pictures (I have good reasons..certain people) so why does she think its ok to post pictures of other peoples kids. This is the fourth time we've had to talk to her about it. New rule: she's not taking any pictures of DD.

ugh i just really don't like them 

Posting pics of your child??? Without permission? And after you've already talked to her about it!? That's beyond rude!! I'm soo aggravated for you right now...

Yup. Dh said to make sure I don't make a scene this weekend. I said I won't say anything unless she tries to take pictures of DD. How many chances does she get. We've also explained to her the why.

 She ignored both our texts until DH called her husband and had him pass the phone. She played it off as oops I didn't realize. and then said it she had meant to send them to me personally. which one is it? ugh she is a drama loving drunk also so I doubt it was an accident.

venussapphire

tarynleann said:

I am truly terrified to be having a girl. I have two nieces and they love me to death. But my motherly role models sucked at life (except my mil who passed away). I don't really know what a healthy mother daughter relationship "looks like". I think I also can't come around to the idea of a girl because I feel like at my next ultra sound my ob is going to tell me it's a boy. (The tech is the one who told me girl)

It just comes naturally through love. I didn't have female role models. And DD and I do great. Its not the female part that is important its just the positive role model part.

NunyaBennis

wildflower75 said:

venussapphire said:

Part of me wants it to start pouring rain so we can't go camping this weekend. I love camping even in the rain...but DH's family is all going to be there  We just saw them all last weekend for DD's party and I don't want to see them for a long time.

Plus just last night I discovered SIL had posted a bunch of party pics and of DD on her facebook. We don't post ANY pictures (I have good reasons..certain people) so why does she think its ok to post pictures of other peoples kids. This is the fourth time we've had to talk to her about it. New rule: she's not taking any pictures of DD.

ugh i just really don't like them 

Posting pics of your child??? Without permission? And after you've already talked to her about it!? That's beyond rude!! I'm soo aggravated for you right now...


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With ya. My ILs are under the impression that if they take (or are given) any pictures, they can do what they want with them. We believe they should respect our wishes for privacy, especially if we explicitly request that they not post something. It is already an ongoing battle and we don't even have kids yet.

NunyaBennis

Kllopez1221 said:

I may or may not have let DH do his sexual fantasy last night....

@-) You scandalous tease!

hjenni

bethas said:

I promised DH that when I got on summer vacation the house would get clean.  For some reason, I just can't bring myself to do it.  I can muster up the energy to go strawberry picking, make jam, go to the Children's Museum two hours away, and go to the zoo.... but looking at the house just makes me want to take a nap.  So mostly I don't.  I do crisis control, but other than that, nada.  

Totally with you on this one. My husband has been great about cleaning around the house and I promised him I would help more but I just can't get the motivation. I've never felt so lazy in my whole life! My goal today is to do some cleaning and surprise him when he gets home. I hope I can just get started and not give up. 

CarrieAnne09

SarahMaureenF said:

So far, @MeganMullikin‌ wins FFFC.

AGREED! I'm so sorry that happened. I would have probably just sat in the vehicle crying.

CarrieAnne09

Kllopez1221 said:

I may or may not have let DH do his sexual fantasy last night....

You are my hero... I don't think I could have done it.

lizzielu82

My confession is that I still haven't told my work yet. I wanted to wait until after the AS but as that is coming up next week, I still don't quite feel ready.

I have a douche canoe of a boss and I know she'll just try to get her grimy little hands into everything I'm working on and most likely eff it all up. 

Trying not to care since there are obviously more important things going on in my life but can't help but feel pissed off about the whole thing since I've worked so hard to build up what I've done at work. Just keep wanting to put it off.

MrsG1019

@Kllopez1221‌ -- you win wife of the year award for sure! X_X