Okay so lawyer says I should email him pics and updates and this and this. So...here is some of what I'm thinking. What are your opinions?
A.) Send him a standard cute picture and be like, "I don't know why you haven't seen your kid or why you've decided not to support her, send a pack of diapers, anything...but just a reminder that the door is open, just as it's always been"...blah blah. That way it is another example in writing that I've always had the door open and he's chosen not to see her....and that I've said it again...
B. His birthday is Saturday. Send him a pic of LO with a sign that says Happy Birthday Daddy or Happy Birthday Daddy Where Are You? or some shit..in hopes this ruins his birthday.
C.) Send a pic and generic "We're doing great. Thanks for asking" smart ass remark.
D.) None of the above. Ignore my attorney.
I really want to go off on his ignorant ass but we all know that's not a good idea. Regardless, I'm sending him something on his birthday. I hope it fucks his whole day.
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
Re: Help me be a b***h
Throwing leaves
You need to avoid anything that can be twisted or incorrectly interpreted, if your too nice the judge see's room for a relationship to be built, too snarky , passive aggressive, aggressive, sarcastic it's going to look like you contribute to the non contact issue and tension.
You need to be the bigger person and stay factual it hard with so much emotion and the knowledge that its them and not you who is the issue but it's the end result that counts, who won the war not the individual battles!!!!!
You need to be cold and calculated to protect both your hearts x
I've read you previous posts and you are doing an amazing job! You are so strong and have the best support!
I agree this guy should not have so much push for a man who hasn't even met his baby, but the law isn't about grey areas only black and white, DNA wise his child he has rights
Just keep showing how he turned it all down and you were never a negative in the situation
I'm no expert and emotions are hard to keep in check but seriously remember you want to win the war, never just a battle