I suppose I need to Intro...I've been lurking here for a bit, but now that dd is 7mo old, I can actually weigh in on things!
Dd is my first, and was "diagnosed" as High Needs by our pediatrician. I had already implemented a lot of AP techniques, as it came very naturally for me, but when I started to read about high needs babies I realized this would really be best for my girl.
I'm not really struggling w the fact that I basically can't leave the room much less the house without her, but I do get a fair amount of flack from others about my parenting style. Most of the time it's ok, but it's nice to be part of a group like this.