My 2 year old ( In April) was 100% potty trained for about a month when she came down with the flu followed by a bad cold. During that time she barely ate or drank anything and became very constipated. While recovering from her sickness she had 2 very large, hard bms and now she is terrified of going poop on the toilet in fear of it hurting I'm guessing. Potty does not seem to be an issue.
She is holding her bm so long that she has little squeakers that come out into her undies and then she is upset about it and tries to hide it from me. If I catch her hiding and trying to hold it in, I immediately put her on the toilet but she screams at the top of her lungs the entire time and will NOT go. I'm convinced she is just terrified it will hurt. This has been going on for a few weeks now and she has not had a regular bm in that long. I've tried putting a diaper back on her, but she still will not go in it. Same little squeakers as she tries to hold it in. I've been giving her tons of fiber, prunes, and daily miralax to soften it and make it easier for her, which it is, but she still won't go.
I'm going crazy and don't know what else to do to convince her it's ok again. Please help me.