I really hate to say this, but birds of a feather flock together. Childhood friends are like family: just because your ties run deep does not mean they are nice people.
I'm realizing this now. I just never dreamed that this girl would behave like this. It's fucked up. I'm going to tell her why I am taking a break & that I'll be here when/if she needs me when this horrible situation goes boom.
I agree with @COmama1314 and @Muirmaid, I think this was too much. If if was posted on a PM it would be different but this is entirely public and I think it's a violation to her privacy.
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Uh, I may get flamed for this, but am I the only one who sees a problem with this being posted? The other post was one thing but to literally put your friend on display just to gossip about such a horrible thing just isn't cool ...
I like you Prim and have no issue with you, but you are lowering yourself to their level by posting this ...
Flame away ...
Yeah it probably wasn't the best idea. Though it's not using anything readily identifiable.
I am flabbergasted. So it's not like I'm putting her on display anymore than any other train-wreck type post we talk about. I care about her & it's more than just gossip-- it's, omg why?!
So it's not selling out my friend for cheap internet thrills.
I'm no stranger to flames. I can stop posting about this. I don't care.
@COmama1314, I'm with you. Between this and the link to another BMB about the affair or whatever was going on last week, I'm kinda giving you the side-eye, Prim...sorry. It just seems in poor taste.
Wait, why are you side eyeing me for a FYE link? Really? :-S
@COmama1314, I'm with you. Between this and the link to another BMB about the affair or whatever was going on last week, I'm kinda giving you the side-eye, Prim...sorry. It just seems in poor taste.
Wait, why are you side eyeing me for a FYE link? Really? :-S
One of the links was a standard bump mess--I have no problem with that one. The second one (in the same thread) was a woman clearly having the worst day of her life. If the point of linking something like that is "There's info in there about how to help" or something, I totally get it. But that one just seemed like "Look at this horrible thing that happened to this person." Just rubbed me the wrong way.
I can see where you're coming from. Blindsided by stupidity, need third party input on how to approach it.
I agree with everyone else. Cut it off. Tell her when she's through being an idiot you'll be there, but in the mean time you can't have anything to do with that mess.
They are adorable! Prim, I seriously love the way you handled this thread. An earlier Prim would've internet brawled the hell out of this post. >:D< =D>
About your BFF, I agree with the others. It's time to step back from her. You don't want her to think you're co-signing this mess. She's doing this to a friend, what will stop her from doing it to you?
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I just can't support this.
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I am flabbergasted. So it's not like I'm putting her on display anymore than any other train-wreck type post we talk about. I care about her & it's more than just gossip-- it's, omg why?!
So it's not selling out my friend for cheap internet thrills.
I'm no stranger to flames. I can stop posting about this. I don't care.
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I agree with everyone else. Cut it off. Tell her when she's through being an idiot you'll be there, but in the mean time you can't have anything to do with that mess.
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About your BFF, I agree with the others. It's time to step back from her. You don't want her to think you're co-signing this mess. She's doing this to a friend, what will stop her from doing it to you?