Hi ladies,
So I'm having a life crisis, and I'm seriously considering changing my career. Has anyone here done that? I don't really have anyone IRL that I feel comfortable talking to about this because I feel like no one will take me seriously. I have only been in my current career (teaching music) for three years and it has been a rough road on so many levels (way more than I feel like getting into in this post). I think I have a little bit of an idea of what I might like to do but I have no idea how to go about getting into an entry level position for something which I am not experienced in. I am not willing to go back to school at this point as I have enough student loan debt and possess a master's degree already. I know that a master's alone is enough in many situations; like just having it is a good thing. I have certain qualifications but no experience. I know people change careers all the time, and I was wondering if anyone else has done this and might be willing to share their experiences? I'd also be interested in hearing from some of you who work in HR and do hiring and what might make a career changer attractive to a company. TIA!
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TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
Re: Changing Careers (NTTGPR)
As for the big 'if'....I would start by thinking about why you want to change careers. Is it just the current workplace that has you down (would a different school change things?) or are you fed up with the career as a whole? Is there another reason you're considering changing careers, such as financial reasons or a recently developed passion in something else?
I received my Bachelor of Science in Justice Studies with an emphasis on pre-law and forensics. I fully intended, since I was nine years old, to go to law school. Not much I wanted to do with the degree other than that. After I graduated, however, I had a change of heart and some personal tragedies occur. Now, I'm pursuing my lifelong dream of writing the great American novel. Writing has been a constant hobby and passion of mine for as long as I can remember. Don't get me wrong, I love law, debate, and studying criminology and all that, but writing has always held a bigger place in my heart. The only reason I never pursued it was because I though money was everything. I've since come around on that and I decided to go for my dream of writing.
It can be difficult to change careers, especially if the new career requires a year or two of working for nothing and forces you to take another position in the meantime (I'm a waitress for now. I'm almost finished with my first novel, however, so I will be seeking publishing soon). But, if it will make you happy, and you have enough passion and drive to go for it and make a decent living off of it at some point, I say go for it. It took months of soul-searching for me to come to that conclusion, though, so don't take it lightly.
Good luck to you!
PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
I changed careers in my late 20s after 5 years of working in academic advising for a college of health sciences. It was terrifying and expensive (I had to quit and go back to full time grad school for 2.5 years), but I love the field I'm in, I feel more satisfied with my work, and it has enough flexibility that I can move around if I get burned out doing what I'm doing right now.
My only suggestion is, if finances are a concern for you, to make sure there is a strong employment market for the field you want to get in to. Quitting your job and going back to school for a field where the employment outlook is bleak (for example - right now there are WAY more people in nursing school than there are nursing positions to fill), it may not be worth the risk at this time.
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
A friend of mine is a music teacher and was also tired of all the BS, and this year she left her district and now only teaches private lessons. She just did this Facebook post about why she left "regular" teaching and how much better her work/life balance is now.
I don't necessarily have any advice on how to change careers, especially since I don't know what you're interested in, but I had to let you know that I feel your pain. Good luck!
PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
I totally agree! I'm a teacher as well. On top of everything you said, I don't know about other states, but we haven't had a raise here in 5 years. I'm still making the same amount as I started 4 years ago, and our state is one of the lowest paying states. Lately charter schools are popping up everywhere. I don't know what the fate of public schools is going to be in the near future.
/rant
PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
It can be hard to start all over in a new field. It's tough to find a job with no experience. I didn't encounter any issues though when I explained to prospective employers why I was changing careers and why the paralegal field was a better fit for me. I think if your new career is something you aren't going back to school for, it's important to do your research and make sure prospective employers know that you are familiar with what the job entails, that you have given it a lot of consideration, and that you are confident it is a better fit for you than what you are doing now.
Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
TTC #1 since November 2013
BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14
BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14
BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15
January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing
It really does suck. Like you said, some kids aren't good test takers. Also, I can control my classroom instruction, but I can't control if my students' parents read to me, if my students have test taking anxiety, are homeless or have other more important things to worry about, are often absent or tardy, are hungry, etc. All of those things have a lot to do with test scores too. I honestly think a lot of problems in education have more to do with the economy and poverty than they do with teachers, and it's hard to be held accountable for something that you only have limited control over.
I worry that with high stakes testing, good teachers will be less willing to work in high poverty schools, or with at-risk or special education students, and that is sad.
Any time we use a single test to measure success, there are all sorts of unintended consequences. For example, infertility clinics are judged on SART data, which I think tracks mostly pregnancies per IVF procedures. This causes some clinics to turn away patients that need more help (like those with previous failed IVFs, older patients, overweight patients, etc.) It's too bad that some doctors would turn away the most needy patients because they need to keep their numbers high, and basically, I see education going the same way.
/rant
Ugh.
I am also a teacher. And I feel you. The biggest problem (there are many) in our field right now is Marzano. Who in the Hell gave this guy all the power to dictate EVERYONE's teaching style?!? It's taken the fun out if teaching and making our kids test drones. Something has to give.
DH: 30
TTC #2 Since April 2017
* June TTGP siggy *
BFP: 4/21/14|EDD: 12/23/14
DS born Oct. '11
TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13
Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14
Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14
Surprise BFP on cycle 12 -- 10/19/14!
EDD July 1, 2015
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!