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tanya_erin

CrazyMonkeyBear said:

longcat07 said:

ok, this is a pet peeve of mine and i've said it on other threads before.  people being snarky and yes, maybe even a little mean on a message board is NOT bullying, and calling it such does a major disservice to people who are victims of real bullying.

@longcat07‌ you beat me to this! I wish I could hit "love it" 100 times.

I have yet to see bullying on this BMB, and only saw it 2 or 3 times total on this site. This thread is not bullying. Every time I see someone play that card, it stings due to being bullied for years growing up and still fighting the ramifications it had on who I am to this day

Edit: thought you were a different username

NatureLovers

I love the "I expect support and encouragement from this site!!!!"

You can expect whatever the hell you want, but no one is obligated to deliver it. Your expectations do not get to dictate the behavior of others. If you don't like it, you can leave. It's that simple.

WillCMyInk

Where are we at with bingo on this thread? We got called b!tches, we were told we're going to make horrible mothers, and snark was called bullying. I think all we're missing is someone saying they feel bad for our husbands!

Oh, and @kmg06d - I would say this same sh!t to someone's face, so I'm pretty sure I'm not a coward hiding behind the big bad interwebz. Andplusalso, a child is young and innocent and needs to be taught. A grown woman should know better, or at least have the common sense to figure out that the U/S is probably much more accurate than her "gut feeling".