Hello everyone. Just got the BFP today. This makes it baby #3 for me. With my last two pregnancies, I have always had an OB, no midwives in the area. I live in a new town, and the hospital where my GP is and my childrens pediatrician is has a woman seen by midwives instead of OB's, unless you are high risk. What are your thoughts on the two? I don't have much knowledge of a midwife.
Re: midwife vs OB/GYN
I personally see a practice of midwives, because I have a strong desire for a natural birth with minimal (preferrably zero) medical intervention. Not that this is impossible to have with an OB, but everything I've read points to the fact that midwives are more natural birth friendly.
The best way for me to describe it is the care that I'm receiving from my midwife is a much fluffier than the care I would receive from an OB. Since I'm a first time mom I want this fluffy, hand holding care.
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This will be my third baby with midwives. FWIW, I'm a doctor and that's still my preference.
That's pretty judgemental. CNMs are nurses (many with years of experience in the nursing field before going for their CNM) with a Masters in Midwifery and time spent in residency delivering babies under the guidance of other CNMs. They are perfectly capable of providing adequate, thorough prenatal care to low-risk women. In fact, in many other countries, you would see a MW for all of your prenatal care unless you were deemed high-risk.
From my own experience, in a previous pregnancy, I actually found the midwives to be a lot more informative, thorough and knowledgable than the OBs in the same group. I'm not saying this is the case with all practices or OBs.
I am not a fan of direct entry or lay midwives, though. Most of the time DEMs are not associated with any OB practice as CNMs usually are. DEMs usually don't have hospital rights, either.
This, too. Most OBs will show up sproadically throughout labor to do checks and then at the end for the actual delivery. My MW spent a lot of time with me (she did nap when I was between 4-7cm) and supporting me, suggesting positions, giving DH things to do, perineal massage during the pushing phase, etc. She was a lot more hands-on than the OB would have been. There is always an OB in the practice at the hospital, though, in case they are needed for any intervention.