I'm on my last straw. I'm so god damn frustrated. My poor kid has had 4 different babysitter since he was 8 months old and none of them but 1 has actually stuck. The one that has stuck has very limited availability so she doesnt sit for us often. We were supposed to have a new sitter come for the first time this thursday (she interviewed last week), but she just texted saying she needs to go on a research trip (she's a biology major) sooner than expected so she cant sit for us.
Seriously what the hell does it take to find a reliable babysitter? My kid is really good, mild mannered kid. All we need is someone who will sit at our house and play with him for a few hours twice a month and then occasionally put him to bed (on a date night). It's not like I'm looking for a full Time nanny here.
It seems like each girl we hire (care.com) is very nice, has great references, etc...but then something always "comes up". I'm just fucking done being blown off.
Thanks for hearing me out. ::SIGH::
Re: WTMF?! Another babysitter vent.
@PrivacyWanted I dont know of any drop in centers around us, but I'll look into it. Although, I doubt any centers are open for the hours we need (2 thursday evenings a month from like 5:30-7:30).
I've thought about that too, but I guess it sorta feels like spending money unnecessarily.
Maybe I need to try widening my approach. I'd be open to leaving him with a teen for those few hours, but the issue is that we honestly don't know of any teens in the neighborhood. Also, I don't have many mom friends to ask, and my gf down the street (her son is 6mo older than my ds and she's got another on the way), I'd feel guilty asking, as she's got a busy schedule as is.
Speaking of barters..has anyone used babysitterexchange.com? I just stumbled across it and am gonna look into it.
My other thought is trading babysitting nights with friends.
I only have a few mom friends, all of which use their family for childcare, so I dont think a trade with them would work. Ive been saying I'm gonna join and be active in a mom's group, but I end up dragging my feet. I really need to just do it and start meeting some new mom friends so we can hopefully barter babysitting.
My only other option is one last candidate I have from Care.com that just called. She has 2 kids of her own (ages 2 & 4) that she'd have with her, and it would most likely involve me dropping DS off to her house if we were to have her watch him. We're debating on that, although I'd have no idea what to even pay her.
My mom's group divides up the larger area into smaller play groups. We can join an email list-serve that people can ask for advice on child care, contractors & more. Would look for a play group that does this sort of thing.
But yeah...I hear you. I only work PT, so I'm home during the day...at this point, I'd be down to maybe watch another kid in addition to mine just to make some extra cash once or twice a week.
Ask. Say you'll pay. Say she can think about it and no hard feelings if she says no or can only do it rarely or short term.