Hey
@mommymaddness, this video explains EXACTLY what I was telling you about the other day, about "bracing yourself" for the pain vs. relaxing and just letting the contraction come. I started to email it to you privately, but then thought other moms might find it interesting too so I might as well just post it and tag you.

The whole thing is LONG but the first half isn't relevant - start watching at the 11:22 mark!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szjuwyJPB8A
Re: @mommymaddness (and anyone else who will birth again)