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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
    Seriously, what's up with the donors not getting cleared?!? 
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    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    edited June 2014
    That's awful!! Why would they even show you her profile if she wasn't in the program?

    This DE crap is not easy..none of this shit is :( Hugs....

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • lgsdesignerlgsdesigner member
    Geez. Way to pop your balloon of hope...I'm so sorry!  :(
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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    So sorry :( you deserve so. Much better! I'm so mad for you...frustrating:(
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  • Lesliem0901Lesliem0901 member
    I can't even imagine. That totally blows. I'm so sorry @JimBobCooter‌
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    TTC#1 since June 2012

    Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA

    BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14 

    IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN

    On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15.  Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F.  Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.

    On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.

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  • Pintobean39Pintobean39 member
    I'm so sorry, that sucks!
    Fucking bump!!!!
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  • Lady2010Lady2010 member
    I am so sorry to hear this! That is terrible they didn't check this before they showed you her profile.

    Sending you hugs!!

    Hope you find a new donor soon.
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    Me:37 DH:39
    TTC#1 since 3/2012

    Diagnosis : Unexplained Infertility

    3 BFN rounds Clomid + IUI
    IVF 1 - BFN, 1 Frozen
    IVF 2 - BFN, 5 Frozen
    FET 1 - BFP!!! EDD 1/24/15 Beta 1: 700, Beta 2: 2,156; 1st U/S 6w3d: HB 118bpm, 2nd U/S 9w3d: HB 171bpm

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  • Sherby613Sherby613 member
    So unfair and frustrating! They never should have shown someone who wasn't fully approved. I'm so sorry. 
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    Natural cycle BFP 7/09; "baby bear" born 3/10
    Natural cycles starting 7/10; two cycles with clomid = BFP 12/10; m/c 2/2011 
    Cycle #3 with clomid = BFP 5/11; "baby lamb" born 2/12
    Natural cycles starting Nov 2013; 1/13 chemical pregnancy
    RE Apr 2014 Dx = hypothryoidism (Rx for synthroid)
    BFP 6/2014 Baby #3 due Feb 2015
     
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Oh no!  I'm so sorry.  You don't deserve all this. :(

    You mentioned that you were "talking yourself into frozen eggs" earlier.  Are they a possibility?

    Hugs to you, and best wishes for a smoother road from here on no matter what route you take!
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    Again!! I'm so sorry.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • kelley72kelley72 member
    ugh I'm frustrated for you!
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  • chucktgirlchucktgirl member
    I'm so sorry. That is really frustrating!

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    PAIF/SAIF Welcome!
    Me: 42, Hubby: 35, TTC since Jan 2010. Dx: DOR due to advanced maternal age. Also: Hypothyroidism (100mcg Levothyroxin). Positive for MTHFR (hetero-C677T), Factor V Leiden, and Fragile X (on DH side). Taking pre-natal vitamins    .
    First natural PG 9/27/11; mc: 1/20/12
    First RE visit: 8/8/12, Saline Sonogram: 8/28/12, IVF injection class: 10/11/12, add FaBB Tab for FVL, +Vitamin D.
    IVF #1: 10/17/12 Baseline: FSH- 9.4, E2- 24, LH- 3.7, Prog- 0.3 The u/s showed 6 follicles in my right  & 9 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 10/21/12: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning.
    ER 10/28/12: 13 Retreived. 7 Mature. 6 Fertilized. 5 Made it to PGS. ET 11/2/12: CANCELED. All 5 came back from PGS as having "severe abnormalities."
    IVF #2: 1/7/13 Baseline: FSH- 8.8, 4 follicles in my right & 6 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle & 150 Menopur SQ nightly. 1/11/13: Add Ganirelix SQ every morning. hCG Trigger 1/16/13
    ER 1/18/13: 9 Retrieved. 5 Mature. 5 Fertilized. 2 Made it to PGS. ET 1/23/13: CANCELED. All embryos (he even sent the ones not growing) came back from PGS as having "multiple severe abnormalities."
    IVF #3:     NEW RE! 3/1/13 Baseline: FSH- 9.6, E2- 61, Prog- 0.94, 3 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 150 Bravelle& 150 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/7/13: Add Ganirelix SQ in AM. hCG Trigger 3/9/13 SQ.
    ER 3/11/13: 6R, 2M, 2F. Day 3: one 8 cell, grade 0.  Five day ET 3/16/13: one early blast, grade Fair. 3/24/13 AF came a day before beta. BFN
    IVF #4:     (Added acupuncture to this cycle.) 3/25/13 WTF & Baseline: FSH-11.8, E2- 56, Prog- 0.84 3/26/13 Start stims. 3/30/13 u/s: 5 follicles in my right & 4 in my left. Rx: 225 Bravelle& 225 Menopur SQ in PM. 3/31/13 Add Ganirelix SQ in AM.hCG Trigger 4/3/13 SQ.
    ER 4/5/13: 5R, 3M, 3F naturally. Day 3: two 8 cell, grade 0, one 8 cell, grade 2 (Scale 0-best to 3-worst). Five day ET 4/10/13: two blastocysts (the 3rd stopped growing.) Beta 4/18/13: 2.5 BFFN. RE recommends we stop trying and focus on living childless, due to the extremely poor quality of my eggs.
    ***Decided to stop trying and live CFNBC. I couldn't adjust. So, six months later...
    IVF #5: Changed RE. Going to one of the big name clinics now. OWDU: 10/29/13. Update: HORRIBLE experience. Disgusted and distraught at their complete unprofessionalism and how much money and precious time they cost us. Sickening. Have now changed RE again. New Patient appt. 1/30/14.
    BFP! Out of nowhere, I got KU the old fashioned way! POAS 1/26/14 - Positive! FDLM 12/30/13. Beta #1 16dpo= 373. Beta #2 18dpo= 801. EDD 10/6/14
    2/4/14 1st U/S revealed a 5wk2day sac but no fetal pole. Started 200mgs of progesterone suppositories daily
    2/11/14 2nd U/S revealed a perfect 6wk1day "diamond ring" embryo with a beating heart! 138bpm! Add 1mg folic acid and 40mg Lovenox
    2/25/14 3rd U/S: perfect 8w1d embryo, 178bpm. 3/6 start spotting. 3/11 10w1d U/S shows no heartbeat. Scheduling D&C. The Stork has forsaken me again.
    IVF #5.2: New in-state RE. Supplement priming for 1.5 cycles prior to start of cycle, including DHEA 50mg (stopped 5/15), CoQ10 200mg 2x/day, L-Arginine- 1000mg 2x/day (stopped 6/5 due to cold sore!), myo-inositol- 2g 2x/day, melatonin- 3mg, and Neevo (prenatal for MTHFR).
    5/16/14 Day 2 bw cycle prior: FSH- 12.22, E2- 38.37, Prog- 1.35, LH- 9.46. 6/2/14 Day 19 bw: Prog- 23
    6/12/14 Baseline: E2- 122.7, Prog- 0.4. 5 follicles in left, 4 follicles in right. Start stims: 375IU Follistim & 150IU Menopur. 6/19 Increase Follistim to 425IU, Menopur still 150IU. 6/18 add Ganirelix. 6/23 Ovidrel trigger SQ. 6/25 ER: 8R, 8M, 5F naturally. Start Medrol & Doxy. 6/26 Start Endometrin. 7/2 Start Lovenox.
    7/8/14 Beta= 137.4 BFP!!! (My first from IVF!) E2- 1109, Prog- >60. Stop CoQ10, myo-inositol, and melatonin. 7/9 2nd Beta= 281.4. TSH- 2.70. Increasing Synthroid to 100mcg daily. 7/24 6w3d u/s measured 6w3d, hb: 121bmp! 8/5 8w1d u/s measured 8w3d, hb: 164bpm! Graduated from RE to OB. Now I just need to find an OB!
    EDD 3/18/15!

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  • kindershlitzkindershlitz member
    Oh no! I'm sorry :(
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    JimBobCooter said:
    Davie813 said:
    Oh no!  I'm so sorry.  You don't deserve all this. :(

    You mentioned that you were "talking yourself into frozen eggs" earlier.  Are they a possibility?

    Hugs to you, and best wishes for a smoother road from here on no matter what route you take!
    My RE doesn't have experience with frozen eggs so using her isn't an option.  But My Egg Bank does work with one of the major RE clinics here, right down the road from us.  I guess it's an option to change if things take too long to get matched but I really don't want to. We love our RE. Of course it's Friday afternoon so it's impossilbe to reach anyone at the donor agency today. 
    I'm soooooo sorry this is happening to you.  They should have never given her as an option if she wasn't fully tested. Shame on them!!!!  Sending you lots of hugs and love on this tough day.

    Regarding My Egg Bank.... I have a friend who after four failed IVF attempts (including losses) decided to move on to DE. Her and her husband waivered for a very long time on which route to go between fresh and frozen and ultimately they choose to use My Egg Bank.  She is now currently 10 weeks pregnant and doing very well.  Their experience was a good one so far, however you definitely should do what is best for you. 

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    Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)

    IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
    IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
    IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
    IVF #2: Apr '    14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
    IVF #3: June '14     ...     Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
    Currently benched while determining how to proceed.

    "Keep going until you can't fail"

     

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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    JimBobCooter said:
    UPDATE:  The agency *might* have another match for us.  And she's proven.  2x donor in another state, both resulting in pregnancies.   We're waiting to find out what her fee is and if we can afford the extra cost.   FX

    I need a drink.
    Keeping my fingers crossed that this one works out for you!
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • thirtyninetofortythirtyninetoforty member
    Oh, I am so sorry this is being so frustrating for you!! 
    Fingers crossed this is the one :)
    41 & single; DX:  PCOS
    TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
    First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
    Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P :(

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  • CaraHCaraH member
    Holy smokes. You've had so many unfair potholes on your path. So sorry.
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  • Pintobean39Pintobean39 member
    JimBobCooter said:

    UPDATE:  The agency *might* have another match for us.  And she's proven.  2x donor in another state, both resulting in pregnancies.   We're waiting to find out what her fee is and if we can afford the extra cost.   FX


    I need a drink.
    FX this is the one! In the mean time I'll be glad to share my alcohol with you. I got the best strawberry wine smoothie mix yesterday.

    Fucking bump!!!!
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  • MelissaMisoMelissaMiso member
    ugh, just ugh

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    edited June 2014
    Have your pick :)  FX the next donor is THE one...

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • gabbagalgabbagal member
    I'm so sorry, I can't even believe it. FX that the new donor is finally the one
    Me: 41, DH: 42, married 2009
    BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
    BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    WTF!!!!
    This all just sucks. I hope your agency gets it's act together and this next donor works out. Two successes sounds promising though. Fx that you get to cycle soon.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    So sorry :(
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    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    JimBobCooter said:
    UPDATE:  The agency *might* have another match for us.  And she's proven.  2x donor in another state, both resulting in pregnancies.   We're waiting to find out what her fee is and if we can afford the extra cost.   FX

    I need a drink.
    The incompetency from many of the ladies' agencies or offices is infuriating. I hope this 2x donor is the one. You so deserve it.

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  • lcwedlcwed member
    I would be absolutely livid.  I am so sorry you are having to deal with this.  FX this next donor works out and the drinks we are sharing with you become your last horray before the 9 month drought.
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Sorry ur having such a rough day with the donor being a bust. Hopefully the two time donor will be ur charm, good luck
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  • Fredifer1115Fredifer1115 member
    edited June 2014
    I'm just going to vent, because I've had a few drinks today. It's amazing that so many stable, loving and eager people/families are having such hard times getting pregnant, yet I work for a foster care agency with FOUR children (15, 16, 17, 18) who are pregnant. These little girls do nothing for their healh, skip their prenatal appointments, fight, carry on like it's just another day, and we sit here with fingers crossed, subjected to so many medical interventions and cry multiple times a day/week. It's infuriating and so unfair. I just hope I, and we, can understand the bigger picture, because what I see right now just plain sucks :(
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    @Fredifer1115‌ and @JimBobCooter‌ - I was an attorney GAL during our first three year bout of ttc. There were days I had to shut my office door and take a moment to be completely politically incorrect. And I can remember seriously considered leaving my job, because the insanity of giving up coffee, practicing yoga, etc etc and not getting pregnant while trying to find a good home for crack addict mom's 13th baby (an actual, though admittedly extreme, case) was just too much.
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