Are you going to have LO open presents at their party? It seems like the polite thing to do, but logistically it seems like a nightmare. I just can't imagine LO staying in one place for more than a present or two. Any btdt advice or plans to share?
We plan on opening gifts at his party. I'll either get a cousin to help out or ask one of the grandmas to help out. I'll probably go to grandmas first because they'll be a little more neat about things and I want to keep cards with the gift so I don't forget who got what for thank yous
LO did. We didn't have a ton of them, and he had fun banging the boxes around. As soon as he banged one, I'd open it for him. Since his attention span is short, it went relatively quickly!
We kinda just went with it. B sorted crawled around near his presents, but most of the opening was done by my niece (she is 8). B was wrangled near us, so he at least looked at everything that was being opened on his behalf.
We did not open gifts. I guess my UO is that I dislike that for this age. Their attention spans are so short that it's a waste of time. We had 54 people (17 being kids) and that would have taken way too long. I went to a 1st birthday last year where it took an HOUR for the gifts. No thank you!
We suggested no gifts on the invite, but I know at least a few people will be bringing them. Because we said no gifts please, we will not be opening anything at the party -- because that would be rude to the people who actually respected our wishes.
Re: S/O birthday presents
DS born 6/2013