Hi there, so I have scheduled a c section due to the babies positions. I'm pretty nervous about the c section, but even more so about how it may affect my skin to skin time and breast feeding success. I'm very committed to breast feeding and am just wondering if anyone has any tips or suggestions for before and after the c section? Thanks!!
Re: Bf after c section
So know the rules at your hospital. As far as the physical part, sitting up is not easy. Ask the nurses to help get you positioned. Extra pillows & football holds worked best for me. Best wishes!
Also, my colustrum was satisfactory for Patrick and my milk came in three days after birth (before I left the hospital). They provided me with a pump to pump for Carter in the NICU. And the LC told me to pump as much as possible while there. gL!
I requested a pump once I was in my recovery room but one "wasn't available" until late the next morning (which made me really mad). I think I tried BFing one of them the first time I saw them, 14hrs after they were born. But it really wasn't successful.
Once I got a pump, I pumped every 3hrs and got ZERO for 3 days. Nothing, not even a drop of colostrum. It was so defeating. I attempted to nurse each baby about once per day. Baby A caught on more quickly than Baby B but neither were getting anything. The NICU made me supplement w formula.
It took 10 days for my milk to fully come in and my boys spent 13 days in the NICU. I pumped every 3hrs around the clock and BFed them as much as I could in the NICU.
We transitioned to BFing once home and have been going strong - with no supplementing! - ever since. My boys will be one at the end of the month and I'll let them self-wean whenever they want.
All that to say that despite a rocky start we have been successful. BFing is extremely important to me and I feel incredibly lucky that we've been able to have a positive BFing relationship despite a less than ideal start.
But then I did have a lot of issues with milk not coming in for ~5 days. I was diligent, we had to give some formula because they were on the small side but I put them both to the breast at every feeding, pumped with hospital grade pump at every feeding and pushed hard to transition them (limitingn formual as long as they had wet diapers once my milk did come in).
Won't lie, it was challenging and took lots of dedication (the nurse bottle pump routine took way longer than just giving a bottle would have, I got much less sleep this way, had to ignore less than helpful advice about giving them more formual, not nursing on demand etc) but I successfully transitioned them and happily nursed for over two years. Like you it was important to me and I was just totally stubborn about making it work
I agree you want to know how the hospital manages things, but would also make it clear when you go in that you want skin to skin contact (don't wait for someone else to figure it out). Figure out who the nursery nurses are (there will be a bunch of nurses with different roles- it's the nursery nurses who manage the babies and can help make it happen). Let the nursery nurses and docs know BEFORE the surgery that it's important to you.
Also - not Csection related but while in hospital request time with a lactation consultant- they can really help with latch etc which is all that much more important with 2.
Another thought about scheduling the surgery- consider the first part of the week to be able to have more time with lactation consultants (who often don't work weekends)- or find out what their schedule is.
Good luck!
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I attempted nursing in the recovery room and have successfully tandem nursed since then. I have been very lucky in my experience so far, but obviously it's very early since I haven't even left the hospital!
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