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How do I explain this? Last week Ryan told me that he was "dying", that he refused to take any medical treatment and told me to take out a "life insurance policy" out on him. I didn't know what to do, I told the only person I talk to in his family: his sister in law (half brother's wife) to tell his family to get medical treatment for him. I may hate the ***** but I couldn't let something like that be on consinuse, you know?   Anyway....now he's been apologizing to me up and down, left and right. I've been so horrible to you and have said terrible things and I'm so sorry" "i've treated you wrong this whole time" it's all I hear. (he's fine medically now though, it was just a kidney stone or something) I finally agreed to let him see Liliana but ONLY because he said his parents would be there too...and he kept saying he wanted to see her and blah blah blah. But then he got into a fight with his dad 15 minutes after we were there called his dad "the worst man ever alive" and looked me straight in the eyes and said "Look Rebecca, I never want this man anywhere near our daughter."  um...wtf??? Since when have we become the caring, concerned father? You have done NOTHING for her...and I only agreed to come b/c your parents were here. I love how after 9 months she's suddently "our daughter" too. hahahahaha. that's the funniest thing ever. Now you care. Or pretending to care. I still think it's a last ditch desperate attempt and that if he thinks he "plays nice" with me I'll drop family court....but good god he actually picked up Liliana and talked to her and interacted with her. the only part i DID NOT like is when he tried to get her to say "dada" (after she said mama a few times) she doesn't know who the hell you are...you haven't been around!!!!  and she apprently HATES him too. My sweet mild manner little girl who loves ALL people cries and screams almost non stop when he held her...and she loves everyone. he kept saying "great. she knows who I am and she's pissed off at me" dude, she's NOT the first female ever that's been fucking pissed off at you in your life...TRUST ME. 

Oh yea...and this part: he insisted on putting her in her carseat when we left and he put her legs through the arm holes and tried to snap it together and wondered why it wouldn't work!!! oh jesus.....

MinnesotaMomma91

I died of laughter at that last part. But im sorry hes being a douche canoe. And thats pathetic that he expected her to know whi he is

20thirteen

Hahaha, omg, that last part, I'm dying!

But wow, yeah, BD would text me out of the blue once in a while to say he was going to kill himself, so I know hat drama. I hope for your sake he just pulls his head out of his ass.

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MinnesotaMomma91

@Beccaga16 has a good point even my three four year old nephew knows how cat seats work. And i dont think ivr ever heard of someone dieing of a kidney stone. My uncle gets them so ive heard they are extremley painful to pass, but i dont know if you can die from them.

And i rolled my eyes hard at what he said to his father, is he a 13 year old girl

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jellybean529

beccaga16 said:

My first thought on all of this was that he needed to use a medical issue in order to get your attention. I think he knew the whole time that he wasn't dying.

If I were you I wouldn't bother with him unless he pursues visitation in court. Anyone who can't even buckle a kid into a car seat and starts a fight in one of his very few interactions with his child is not worth your time. 

He has a lot of work to do to prove himself a decent co-parent.

This is exactly what I would have said