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Intro - 3 mc's and would love to join

goldengirl84goldengirl84 member
edited June 2014 in Parenting after a Loss
Hi, ladies! I've been back and forth a few times on TTCAL and PgAL since January. I thought this seemed like a good place to be since everyone here is a parent and we can talk about our LC too. Just to fill y'all in: my first bfp resulted in the most boring 41 week pregnancy. His birth was super scary (blood clot in umbilical cord broke off and gave placenta a stroke) but he's perfect now and scores above average on all his follow-up testing. His name is Ward and he is 19 months old. Love my buddy more than life itself. DH and I really want a big family. We started TTC in January and got pregnant right away. Long story short: I've lost 3 pregnancies already this year - all before 6 1/2 weeks. I'm meeting with an RE on June 23rd and desperately hoping for answers. Looking forward to getting to know you all! If anyone else has been through something similar, I would greatly appreciate any helpful advice so we don't miss anything. I've already had testing done for blood clotting disorders and all was normal.
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Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15

Re: Intro - 3 mc's and would love to join

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    km_mdkm_md member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board!


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    Welcome! I am sorry for your losses. Meeting with an RE was the best decision I could have made. Hope you get some answers, and a plan that works for you.

     

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    Me:41/ lean PCOS, 2 clotting disorders, IC/ DH:41~ TTC since 1/11
    Clomid 50mg,100mg,150mg | Injectables + IUI#1 & IUI#2= BFN
    IVF#1~ 8/2012~ 13 frosties~ BFP! OHSS
    12/4/12 Luke & Kyle born @ 18 weeks
    SHG+ Hysteroscopy+ FET= BFP | Cerclage+ Lovenox+ 5m Bed Rest
    ~Our wee guy is here! 11/27/13~

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    I am sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. There are many women here who are TTC and have been through losses after having a child/rainbow. I think you will be able to find support here.

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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    I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board, though! I hope we can be a source of support and a safe place for you. This is an amazing group of women. 
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    So sorry for your losses! Welcome to the board! I hope the RE will be able to get you some answers!


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    BFP#1 2/5/13 - EDD 10/11/13 - MMC@8wks - D&C 3/7/13
    BFP#2 7/10/13 - EDD 3/21/14- Eli's Here!!
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    Thank you all for the warm welcome!
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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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    I'm so sorry for your losses.  I had two early losses this year as well (and one prior to DD) so I am meeting with an RE tomorrow.  I can let you know what they asked me after the appt. but I know the other ladies here can probably answer your questions as well.  Big hugs!
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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    @ellebelle2384 thank you. I'm sorry for your losses. I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow! Please let me know what they talk to you about and tests they might run. Hoping they find an answer for you.
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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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    I'm so sorry! I loved my RE and going to him was the best thing for us because we had a plan in place with someone who personally had (his wife) 4 losses and now has 4 (grown) children. I hope you are able to get some answers and a plan as well :) welcome!

    TTC #1 since 5/2010 dx: annovulatory 

    RLP: 2/2012: normal HSG 3/2012: normal

     BFP #1 7/20/11 M/C 7/25/11. BFP #2 11/29/11 M/C 12/21/11

    I have two angel babies that I will see again one day

    BFP #3 10/27/12 EDD: 7/6/13

    Baby Emma arrived at 35 weeks by surprise on June 3rd, 2013!!


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    BFP #4: 5/23/14 EDD: 1/30/15  Emma's gonna be a big sister!

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    Welcome to the board and I'm sorry about your losses. I also had two losses after a boring, textbook preganancy. One loss was due to Turners and we didn't have an answer to why we lost twins that looked healthy at the end of first tri. We did find out though during my second loss that I know had hypothyroid. I'd make sure you also have your TSH tested.

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    BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
    BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13

    Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13 

    BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14

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    I'm sorry you have to be here, it's a club no one wants to be a part of. I hope you get some answers and can move forward.
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    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you get the answers you need!

    BFP: 04/03/2014  EDD: 12/15/2014  HB: 04/30/14 (75bpm) MC: 5/2/2014 (natural)

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