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jrock82

Hi everyone!
I signed up to get some advice! Here is a little background, I was married for 8 years and have been divorced for over a year. I have 5 beautiful children one of which is a baby. I recently was signed up on a dating app(which I just did not think I would find anyone it was more for laughs) but I met this great guy that has an amazing personality. On my profile it says I have kids and I'm divorced. My question is when do I bring the subject of kids up? He hasn't mentioned it so I don't know if he just didn't see that or he just doesn't mind. What do I say and when?

MinnesotaMomma91

... um what? Be honest and up front. Why is that so damn hard. Not telling him is a lie of omission

jellybean529

I would definitely tell him right away. It's best to be up front, that way you don't waste your time on someone who won't except the whole package.

freeatlast2014

I would say "do you have kids"
And if he asked I would say I have 5. If he didn't ask I would say I have 5. I definitely wouldn't keep that secret. You want someone who will want you and all your little people you love!!