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    MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    maryhr1: Feel better!!! Get lots of rest!!!

    TP to MH!!! I was coming home today from an extra work shift I picked up this weekend and decided to have a romantic at home date night with him so stopped and picked up french wine and creme brulee from a really good bakery to "re-live" our Paris trip from a couple weeks ago...go to put the groceries in my trunk and find the shoes we bought him that he told me he didn't like and returned four weeks ago! Now of course it's too late to return them! Argh he totally doesn't deserve creme brulee now....
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    @MSU_Girl1202‌ I'll take YH's creme brulee mmmm =P~
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    mflowers929mflowers929 member
    My hormones are all over the place, but I'm really not sure whether I want to TP my MH or try to make him feel better. He's been sick, ended up in the ER for 24 hours on IV antibiotics for stones in either his salivary or thyroid gland. He's been really bitchy the past few days, just ready to blow up over any little thing (while he can be bitchy normally, he's never this twitchy about it unless he's really not feeling well).
    Today I came home from a really weird day at work, and he starts in about my animals. I got upset and went to bed where I was crying. He came up and was asking why I was crying, and if I don't have a reason then stop. I'm sorry dear, it's not like I can control my hormones or what is going to trigger the waterworks, because if I could, I wouldn't be crying over guinea pigs that we both agreed needed to go.
    Momma to 3 angels and two amazing children
    F born June 2018
    W born September 2020
    #3 due November 2022
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    MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    EurydiceNymph said:
    @MSU_Girl1202 I think you deserve a hot bath, glass of that wine and TWO pieces of  creme brulee!
    Hahaha I LOVE that idea!
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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    kflynn81kflynn81 member
    TP to the couple that brought their baby to the late show of Xmen last night and sat behind us in the theatre. I mean, come on... WTF, you don't bring a baby to see Xmen!!!
    Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 
    NTNP 2009-2012         TTC since 2012:
    • Clomid, 2 IUI cycles, and 5 IVF cycles = BFN
    • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
    • Jack dx at 19w1d with Dandy Walker on 12/16/13
    • Severe Pre-e /HELLP set in Jack born sleeping at 20w1d on 12/23/13
    • FET #2 --July 2014  BFP!  ---  EDD  4/5/15

    Jack has handpicked his sibling up there :)

    My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog

            Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 

                                                      

                                                                              Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


                  Anniversary





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    FeeganFeegan member
    TP to the miscarriage support group in my area that I found, emailed to confirm their next meeting (30 min ago), they confirmed, and I showed up to an dark, empty room. I skipped things this morning that I really wanted to do because I thought it was important to attend this meeting. WTF. So upset.
    TTC #1: 3/2013
    02/2014: Clomid = BFN
    03/2014: Femara + Menopur + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP! - 3/17/14
    EDD: 11/29/14 - MMC @ 9 wks: 4/25/14 
    Misoprostol 4/28 & 4/29 - D&C after misoprostol failure 5/2/14
    07/2014: Spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    08/2014: Spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    08/2014 v2.0: Final spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    09/2014: BCP cycle in prep for injectable cycle in Oct.
    10/2014: Gonal-F + Cetrotide + Ovidrel + IUI  = BFP!
    TWINS! 
    "Top Bunk" & "Bottom Bunk" due June/July 2015
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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    @RedheadRunning‌ (((hugs))) lady. That sucks and is totally unprofessional. I say take yourself to Starbucks (or the like), enjoy a relaxing latte, and regroup for the day. And I would definitely send them an email complaint. I hope you can enjoy the rest of your day!
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    FeeganFeegan member
    edited June 2014
    I made sure to email the woman who confirmed the meeting and let her know what happened. I just can't believe it. At least I have TB and all you wonderfully supportive ladies.
    TTC #1: 3/2013
    02/2014: Clomid = BFN
    03/2014: Femara + Menopur + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP! - 3/17/14
    EDD: 11/29/14 - MMC @ 9 wks: 4/25/14 
    Misoprostol 4/28 & 4/29 - D&C after misoprostol failure 5/2/14
    07/2014: Spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    08/2014: Spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    08/2014 v2.0: Final spontaneous IUI, no meds = BFN
    09/2014: BCP cycle in prep for injectable cycle in Oct.
    10/2014: Gonal-F + Cetrotide + Ovidrel + IUI  = BFP!
    TWINS! 
    "Top Bunk" & "Bottom Bunk" due June/July 2015
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    yellowcat10yellowcat10 member
    TP to my colleague who is running this abroad program with me and has our contracts rewritten every week so he gets more money and the rest of us less.  It is only a few hundred dollars but I am starting to get pissed about it. The more he messes with this the later I get paid.   I know how much he makes, he does not need the extra money he is just being an asshole.  

     
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    Km380Km380 member
    TP to me for getting upset about things:-(

    ***Other children & PGS mentioned

    I treated myself to a pedi this morning and there was a woman there with probably a 10 yr old daughter. I overheard them talking about piano lessons and birthday parties and I teared up. Wtf! I know it partly hormonal but things like that with older kids normally don't bother me. Now we're off to a festival to meet up with our very pg neighbor. Her due date is a month after mine would have been

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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