November 2014 Moms

Best/Worst/Funniest parenting advice you've gotten.

Re: Best/Worst/Funniest parenting advice you've gotten.

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  • A woman I work with told me that to prepare for breastfeeding, I should be extremely rough with my boobs and nipples. She told me to rub a brillo pad all over my boobs and pinch my nipples as hard as I could. It was a super uncomfortable conversation!

    This was my MIL's advice too. Don't do it, you don't need to be causing unnecessary trauma to your nipples!
  • PineApple85PineApple85 member
    edited May 2014
    I think at least 10 people, some co-workers, some friends, some total strangers told us to go to the movies as much as we can before the baby came because after that it would be difficult! Boy were they right!!

    This.  I'm pretty sure The Hobbit comes out in November and I'm trying to figure out if I'll be able to see it while it's still in theaters.  I plan to bf again and at that point with DS he was nursing about every hour to 2 hours for 30+ minutes, which meant I was never more than an hour or so from ending on session to starting another.  First world problems.

    ETA: I don't have any funny/bad advice stories.  One woman did tell me that having sons make your hips wider and they never go back.  Not true, but even if it were what the hell good does that do to tell me?!  Seriously.
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  • MaelaraMaelara member
    nonoemily said:
    The most hilarious, bizarre advice I got last time came from all the grandmas in my life. My own grandmother told me to drink all the Guinness. DHs grandma told me they used to give babies a piece of bacon fat tied to a string to chew on while teething. The string was so you could keep them from swallowing it. Lots of annoying suggestions to give my baby water in a bottle while we were EBF. To get rid of my cats. That whole rice in the bottle thing. Just smile and nod. Oh, the worst was other peoples opinions about clothing. My son is a very hot bodied person, like myself. He gets overheated quickly, and hate swearing socks and shoes. Old people were always bitching at me to cover his feet or make him wear a sweater. We went against the grain in our social circle and did CIO with DS when he was six months old. It took two nights, and he never cried for more than 20 minutes. It just was the right thing to do for us at that point, but in a group setting I got a lot of shit for it. Of course, when I was in a one-on-one conversation with another mom, that was always the first thing they asked me about. Hypocrites!

    I'm the one that did CIO in my circle too. At first I got lots of nasty looks but now none of their children are sleeping and they keep asking me for advice. DD has slept through the night since she was 8 months old. She did it on her own, I was absolutely still feeding her at night until she she stopped that on her own. I will absolutely do it again. I believe every baby is ready at different points, so I'll wait until then. Any time after 6 months.
  • My mom told me when I was pregnant with DD to not complain about being tired and sleeping too much while preg because when baby comes I'm going to wish I could sleep as good. She wasn't lying. I was sleepless for months with the DD.
  • Nfranco973Nfranco973 member
    edited May 2014

    @sweetbabyrahe


    "Worst: After my son had 6 ear infecitons in 3 months and we were getting ET tubes placed (hopefully this doesn't get me flamed-I'm just a western medicine conservative mom) "He doesn't need tubes, take him to a chiropractor...it will fix everything"

    Ummm ... YIKES!!! I had 2 ear surgeries when I was a kid and they were the best things ever. 


    Take a dropper with kids (mom said not adults?) first morning urine and drop it into ear. Let it sit for a few and then tip your head to the side & let it drain out. Laugh at me if you want but as a kid I got the worst ear infections and it was the only thing thAt worked. Don't know how it works but it just does lol
    Edited: to clarify process
  • MrsDLMrsDL member

    We were on vacation in Cape Cod with my H's family when DS was about 1, he was going through the biting phase, he rarely did it but he happened to bite me while we were out eating. I told him that was naughty and that's about it.

    A woman walked over to me and said "bite him back, really hard just once, that's all it takes, I did it with my 3 kids and they never bit anyone again." Not my style but it was a random thing for a stranger to say imo.  She walked away and I was like "thanks random stranger, I can't wait to bite my baby really hard!" We all had a good laugh over it.

     
  • I don't have any advice stories, but people do say ridiculous things to pregnant women. Gender predictions and baby names are the worst, imo.

    Close to the end of my last pregnancy, I stopped at a convenience store and the cashier swore up and down that I was having a boy. When I told her it was a surprise, she said, "Well, you'll have to come back and tell me if I was right. I'm always right." Sure, random stranger. I'm sure you're invested enough in me and my child for me to come back and show baby pictures to you a month from now! She was wrong, btw.

    When I worked in pharmacy during my 2nd pregnancy, I had a regular ask if we had picked a name for our daughter yet. When I told her we hadn't, she suggested Sheridan (her name). Thankfully I had the excuse that we already have a Sheri (my sister) and a Sherry (my MIL) in our family and didn't have to say I didn't like "Sheridan" in the least.

    The funniest one we had was when DS was a few months old. It was the first time Dh and I had been out to eat since he was born and we went to a relatively nice steak place. DS started to fuss. Not even cry, just fuss a bit. An elderly man was seated near us and began complaining loudly to his tablemates about people bringing babies out in public. I changed DS in the ladies' room and he was perfectly happy and quiet the rest of the time, although the man continued to complain. The aisles were narrow, so when it was time to go I held DS and Dh carried the carseat sideways. The man saw me with the baby and Dh with the carseat and practically yelled, "They have TWO?" I wonder what he'd think now if I waddled in with my preggo belly and three kids.

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  • meeshybee said:

    I don't have any advice stories, but people do say ridiculous things to pregnant women. Gender predictions and baby names are the worst, imo.

    Close to the end of my last pregnancy, I stopped at a convenience store and the cashier swore up and down that I was having a boy. When I told her it was a surprise, she said, "Well, you'll have to come back and tell me if I was right. I'm always right." Sure, random stranger. I'm sure you're invested enough in me and my child for me to come back and show baby pictures to you a month from now! She was wrong, btw.

    When I worked in pharmacy during my 2nd pregnancy, I had a regular ask if we had picked a name for our daughter yet. When I told her we hadn't, she suggested Sheridan (her name). Thankfully I had the excuse that we already have a Sheri (my sister) and a Sherry (my MIL) in our family and didn't have to say I didn't like "Sheridan" in the least.

    The funniest one we had was when DS was a few months old. It was the first time Dh and I had been out to eat since he was born and we went to a relatively nice steak place. DS started to fuss. Not even cry, just fuss a bit. An elderly man was seated near us and began complaining loudly to his tablemates about people bringing babies out in public. I changed DS in the ladies' room and he was perfectly happy and quiet the rest of the time, although the man continued to complain. The aisles were narrow, so when it was time to go I held DS and Dh carried the carseat sideways. The man saw me with the baby and Dh with the carseat and practically yelled, "They have TWO?" I wonder what he'd think now if I waddled in with my preggo belly and three kids.


    I do don't have any yet, but I am fairly certain the man in the steak house was my FIL. He is that big of an asshole, and has that little self awareness. I have been with him when he was such a jerk to a family at a restaurant that he made a little girl cry. I wanted to cry too.
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  • MaelaraMaelara member
    meeshybee said:

    I don't have any advice stories, but people do say ridiculous things to pregnant women. Gender predictions and baby names are the worst, imo.

    Close to the end of my last pregnancy, I stopped at a convenience store and the cashier swore up and down that I was having a boy. When I told her it was a surprise, she said, "Well, you'll have to come back and tell me if I was right. I'm always right." Sure, random stranger. I'm sure you're invested enough in me and my child for me to come back and show baby pictures to you a month from now! She was wrong, btw.

    When I worked in pharmacy during my 2nd pregnancy, I had a regular ask if we had picked a name for our daughter yet. When I told her we hadn't, she suggested Sheridan (her name). Thankfully I had the excuse that we already have a Sheri (my sister) and a Sherry (my MIL) in our family and didn't have to say I didn't like "Sheridan" in the least.

    The funniest one we had was when DS was a few months old. It was the first time Dh and I had been out to eat since he was born and we went to a relatively nice steak place. DS started to fuss. Not even cry, just fuss a bit. An elderly man was seated near us and began complaining loudly to his tablemates about people bringing babies out in public. I changed DS in the ladies' room and he was perfectly happy and quiet the rest of the time, although the man continued to complain. The aisles were narrow, so when it was time to go I held DS and Dh carried the carseat sideways. The man saw me with the baby and Dh with the carseat and practically yelled, "They have TWO?" I wonder what he'd think now if I waddled in with my preggo belly and three kids.


    I do don't have any yet, but I am fairly certain the man in the steak house was my FIL. He is that big of an asshole, and has that little self awareness. I have been with him when he was such a jerk to a family at a restaurant that he made a little girl cry. I wanted to cry too.

    My grandma is the female version of this man. She goes nuclear if a person dares to bring their child on an airplane. I've tried explaining to her that baby's can't pop their ears and if they are crying it's because they are in pain or that the long flights she takes (to England) the kids are bound to get bored. Hell, I would. She just makes rude comments and huffs. I hate being in public with her.
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