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TTW Torture!

JessarabJessarab member
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My 5 day beautiful embies were transferred last Thursday - my beta is this Friday and I get the results Monday (the weekend will be a long one!). My RE said to POAS Saturday morning if I wanted to so I had a heads up on results for Monday. I might just do that so when I get the call Monday and I can contain myself at work one way or another. Technically, it's not even a full TTW - it's more like an 8 day wait and I'm still anxious!

At first I felt nothing and now I feel like AF is coming - I've been crampy since yesterday. I also had a complete meltdown from sheer exhaustion from this process - it sure is a crazy one. I'm hoping I'm not out this month but the cramps are making me nervous.

GL to all those cycling and positive vibes to all
Pregnancy Ticker

Married September 3, 2011 | TTC since May 2013
Me: Diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2013, underwent fertility sparing surgery which left low ovarian reserve, no tubes, partial ovary | DH: perfectly normal 
BFP: 5/30/2014 via donor eggs | EDD: 2/6/2015
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  • DoulaRaVenMaDoulaRaVenMa member
    I am right there with you, the wait is a killer one & such a head game as well. I'm in the start of my wait still. That sucks you can't get same day results that would have saved you a stressful weekend for sure. Try to stay busy is all you can do
    Wishing you all the Best!!! :)
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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    edited May 2014
    Hang in there!! Waiting is SO hard. Good luck!!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • MoreTacosPleaseMoreTacosPlease member
    That is a tough weekend wait. Maybe book yourself lots to do? Best wishes that this is the one!

    Me:37;  Female Partner
    TTC#1 since 12/2013

    Natural Cycle IUI #1 : BFN, December 2013
    No surge, Possible No O: January 2014
    Natural Cycle IUI #2 : BFN, Feb 2014
    Natural Cycle IUI #3: BFN, March 2014
    HSG- all clear: April 2014
    Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone IUI #4: May 2014, BFN
    Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone IUI #5: June 2014, BFN
    Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone IUI #6: July 2014, BFN
    Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone IUI #7: September 2014, BFN
    Gonal-F + Ovidrel + Progesterone IUI #8: October 2014, BFN.
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  • daydreamer34254daydreamer34254 member
    The 2ww certainly is hard, but you're almost there! But why in the world do you have to wait the weekend for your beta results?! That's just cruel!!!
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    TTC since March 2012
    Dx: Unexplained IF, Arcuate Uterus, Minimal Endometriosis, Poor Embryo Quality
    Tx History: 1 Injects+TI, 5 IUIs, 3 IVFs, 1 FET = all BFN and full of heartbreak
    Plan: Waiting to see if our potential donor is a match for DE IVF #1


    Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
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  • JessarabJessarab member
    edited May 2014
    @DoulaRaVenMa - thanks!! you too :) sending baby dust to you!! when is your beta?
    Thanks @BeckyP005!
    @MoreTacosPlease - good idea - I've got a book that I've been wanting to finish and it's supposed to be beautiful, so maybe a zen walk will do some good!
    I know, @daydreamer34254!! I was traveling this morning and didn't get to the RE until late this afternoon so that's why I have to wait til Monday - 72 hours!
    @thanks Marshmallowevening!

    I spotted yesterday for a hot second, have been crampy and sore boobs - I'm hoping these aren't period cramps. I might take a HPT tomorrow morning - the RE said the results tomorrow should be the same as the Beta results - FX!!

    Have a good weekend everyone :)
    Pregnancy Ticker

    Married September 3, 2011 | TTC since May 2013
    Me: Diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2013, underwent fertility sparing surgery which left low ovarian reserve, no tubes, partial ovary | DH: perfectly normal 
    BFP: 5/30/2014 via donor eggs | EDD: 2/6/2015
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  • chicagobride_07chicagobride_07 member
    GL to you, I had my transfer on the same day as you. I will have my beta on Saturday, though. I will probably Poas, but not until Saturday. With my DD, I had a negative HPT and a beta of 21 10dp5dt. I was very stressful so I want to give it more time this time. I do think sometimes frozen embies can take longer to implant.

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    DOR and AMA
    2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
    7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts; 6 frosties = BFN;
    Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
    Follow up testing in September all clear;
    Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
    FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
    12/12- Officially an OB patient!
    Level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks shows vasa previa and VCI
    Referral to MFM and mandatory c section for delivery
    Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks
    Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
    Trying for sibling: FET # 2- May 2014; beta 5/31, BFN
    FET #3, early July 2014; beta 7/14, BFN
    DE IVF # 2- August 2014; 14R, 13M, 11F, 5dt of 2 blasts (3 AA), 5 frosties = BFN
    FET #4- December 2014, yet another BFN

    Dr. KK work up shows borderline uterine blood flow, elevated NK cells, and MTHFR mutation (homozygous for c677t)

    Added baby aspirin, prednisone, supplements, Metanx, and intralipids

    Switched to large clinic for final attempt; had endometrial receptivity testing in January; FET March 2015 = yet another BFN

    Likely OAD- NBC

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  • DoulaRaVenMaDoulaRaVenMa member
    Thinking of you!!
    My beta is the 3rd
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  • daydreamer34254daydreamer34254 member
    FX for tomorrow!!!
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    TTC since March 2012
    Dx: Unexplained IF, Arcuate Uterus, Minimal Endometriosis, Poor Embryo Quality
    Tx History: 1 Injects+TI, 5 IUIs, 3 IVFs, 1 FET = all BFN and full of heartbreak
    Plan: Waiting to see if our potential donor is a match for DE IVF #1


    Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    Good luck tomorrow!!!!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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