I've been marked by my BMB

FLRainbowGirl

Remember how I asked what's up with these attacks???
Well, a whole thread was started - with more than 35 posts already - about how I say our BMB has some people who were very rude & not accountable to other people's feelings... Which is all true. The lady that was targeted, closed her account...

So I was actually FOLLOWED to this board by some of the ladies who don't belong on this board...(Stalking much...?)

The fact of the matter is: after I posted in BMB about it, discussions have been MUCH MORE DECENT & there were no further attacks or targeting - except me - off course.

Lord knows, I don't have time for childish, hormonal, catty women.

I'm seriously thinking of bowing out completely.

Your thoughts?

LadyXaverian

No, some of us do belong to this board. You weren't followed and stalked. I saw your thread a few days ago, but I ignored it even though I thought your rant was uncalled for. Please recognize that you have also said some pretty mean things about some people on your Jan '15 BMB. You are not innocent in the whole thing.

As I stated in that thread, you don't have to like them; they don't have to like you. I feel like this is a kindergarten lesson-- we can all co-exist, but we can't force others to like us or respond exactly as we want them to.

I feel like this is getting blown way out of proportion. I'm hoping it will die out soon.

I wish you a H&H 7.5 more months, and I hope you find your happy place on the Bump.

FLRainbowGirl

@LadyXaverian
I hear you..

I have not said one nasty thing in any way, shape or form. May want to go read the threads again. I am very accountable to what I post - as if it is in person.

I agree that it really is blown out of proportion. It's honestly not a big deal to me, I am pretty thick skinned. I was just surprised to see a whole thread attacking me because I posted asking people to be more careful with other people's feelings... And as I stated - there has not been one incident on that board after that - although people do disagree. It is decent.

I hope you're blessed during this very special time as well!

brendisimma

You got caught up on another board bring critical..you probably didn't imagine people would be checking other boards and putting you on blast..what you originally stated is your opinion based on posts you have read that made you feel uncomfortable..(been there) the mistake you made was posting your opinion on ANOTHeR board...seems like that's the big insult..so I noticed you went back "showed up" and defended your stance, which was courageous. Most mature women will get over the drama and move on..there's no need to dwell on the incident, don't quit TB...