November 19 Due Date Buddies?

Sunshinehippymama

I was wondering if anyone else is due that day too and how your pregnancy is going? What do you feel like you are having? What are your birth plans? How many other kids do you have? Anything else you wanna share?

Kristy774

May I suggest you read the entire "End of November due date buddies" thread, so you can get a feel for how the majority of the board feels about posts like this one.

AnnieRoo13

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

absolutelymaybe

Oh dear. 

CarrieAnne09

I knew today was going to be a good day.

Sunshinehippymama

AnnieRoo13 said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

Kehlepop

I you @Kristy774‌ :x

Kristy774

Kehlepop said:

I you @Kristy774‌ :x </p>

I you back!

Kehlepop

Kristy774 said:

Kehlepop said:

I you @Kristy774‌ :x </p>

I you back! </p>

But if you're not due November 14th, we must never speak again!

CarrieAnne09

kyliedaniellexx said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

JW why you care since women rarely give birth on their EDD... the "estimated" is there for a reason...

This - my due date has changed twice so far... it's an estimate.

abbyful

Sunshinehippymama said:

AnnieRoo13 said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

Why? Most babies aren't born on their due dates anyway. So you're due November 19th... You could have your baby anytime in November. You could also have your baby in October (hopefully not too early!) or December.

lizzielu82

Oh man, I'm SOOO close - but alas, 2 days later. I guess we can't connect   ( Although maybe there's a chance I could be 2 days early???

renbee

Bahahahahahaha

hahahahahahaha....

hahahahahaha

oh man. 

Sunshinehippymama

kyliedaniellexx said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

AnnieRoo13 said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

JW why you care since women rarely give birth on their EDD... the "estimated" is there for a reason...

Because its fun! Its neat to know who waS given this approximated birth date that matches yours, who may have gotten pregnant the same day as you, and to see if you deliver on the same day at all or if your symptoms match up around the same time i know its just estimated but its still neat to me

mander82

These are the BMB's version of TTGP's "am I pregnant?" posts.  

lisaren

I was due on the 19, unfortunately not any longer, but I can still be your friend. Your best buddy forever.

DoubleUp8

Sunshinehippymama said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

We have been tracking ladies on the board on a spreadsheet (women post their info in the Nov '14 spreadsheet post at the top of the board. It is sorted by due date so that is probably the best way to figure out who might share your due date. Here is a direct link to the spreadsheet:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Ag8ETf63Bf7adDhQczVKX1d0TndwZnRMRl84NHpreHc&usp=sharing#gid=0

Sunshinehippymama

Give me a break guys, i don't do pointless drama, and I've only even been on the forum for a week and read maybe 20 posts tops lol. Why does anyone seriously feel the need to start attacking other women for asking a question? We should all be working on unity love and respect as women all in the same boat especially, not drama which is why most women can't stand other women yikes guys, you are ALL better than this.

brooklyngirl18

ok serioulsy? for those of you ladies who have participated on other BMBs, is this a thing that happens every time or is our board cursed? or should i say blessed because this is funny every time.

Kristy774

Sunshinehippymama said:

Give me a break guys, i don't do pointless drama, and I've only even been on the forum for a week and read maybe 20 posts tops lol. Why does anyone seriously feel the need to start attacking other women for asking a question? We should all be working on unity love and respect as women all in the same boat especially, not drama which is why most women can't stand other women yikes guys, you are ALL better than this.

No one attacked you. Show me where that happened? Because it didn't. If you are trying to connect with other women on this board, your going about it the wrong way.

Sunshinehippymama

lisaren said:

I was due on the 19, unfortunately not any longer, but I can still be your friend. Your best buddy forever.

I was due the 21st until my us at 13 weeks so it changed a few days, i feel like I'm father along than that tho. Never know! I'm super curious to see how its going to turn out

Sunshinehippymama

DoubleUp8 said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

AnnieRoo13 said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

We have been tracking ladies on the board on a spreadsheet (women post their info in the Nov '14 spreadsheet post at the top of the board. It is sorted by due date so that is probably the best way to figure out who might share your due date. Here is a direct link to the spreadsheet:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Ag8ETf63Bf7adDhQczVKX1d0TndwZnRMRl84NHpreHc&usp=sharing#gid=0


Oo thank you! I wasnt aware

sweetbabyrahe

@AnnieRoo13 I am also due November 9th...so I care especially for you but all the others as well

SweetMelissa5

Sunshinehippymama said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

JW why you care since women rarely give birth on their EDD... the "estimated" is there for a reason...

Because its fun! Its neat to know who waS given this approximated birth date that matches yours, who may have gotten pregnant the same day as you, and to see if you deliver on the same day at all or if your symptoms match up around the same time i know its just estimated but its still neat to me

The thing is, this is pretty much the point of the birth month boards; you can find people who are due around the same approximate time as you, who will possibly have the same symptoms around the same time, etc. Narrowing it down to one specific day is really limiting.

Sunshinehippymama

kyliedaniellexx said:

True. But if you had bothered to read any of the other 100 posts like this you would know how this was going to go

I haven't seen any other posts like this yet :S I've only been on here to look at the forum 4 times, i don't generally have time to go through a ton of posts esp to search for what silly things make people get all riled up. Just to participate in fun posts answer or ask questions

AnnieRoo13

 

sweetbabyrahe said:

@AnnieRoo13 I am also due November 9th...so I care especially for you but all the others as well

Awww shucks! Now I have a due date buddy and I didn't even have to start my own thread. Let the bonding begin.

Sunshinehippymama

FhSTAR81 said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

lisaren said:

I was due on the 19, unfortunately not any longer, but I can still be your friend. Your best buddy forever.

I was due the 21st until my us at 13 weeks so it changed a few days, i feel like I'm father along than that tho. Never know! I'm super curious to see how its going to turn out

I really wish you realized she just suffered a major loss and didn't have a due date change

Nope, was completely clueless yikes!!! My bad! So sorry!

Sunshinehippymama

Kllopez1221 said:

FhSTAR81 said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

Give me a break guys, i don't do pointless drama, and I've only even been on the forum for a week and read maybe 20 posts tops lol. Why does anyone seriously feel the need to start attacking other women for asking a question? We should all be working on unity love and respect as women all in the same boat especially, not drama which is why most women can't stand other women yikes guys, you are ALL better than this.

QFP

Thank you have a feeling this will be a dd. 

and to the OP. We are all due within weeks of each other, we are all going through the same things. Do you really need to know if someone possibly conceived on the same exact day as you? These threads are ridiculous and redundant, and I can guarantee you it will end up the same way the other threads like this did. Honestly if you want to connect with someone due at the same time as you, check out the spreadsheet DoubleUp8 posted and the sticky thread at the top of the BMB and PM those due on the 19th. Don't clog up the board because you're too lazy to simply search out those due at the same time as you, especially since the resources are there. 

Like i said, i didn't know, haven't been on here very long, just learning things. If i could delete the post for every ones benefit, i would just so it could give everyone peace... But i cannot lol so why keep it going?

abbyful

@Sunshinehippymama‌ - Here's a tip, not only for here but for all internet forums: Lurk before you post! Get an idea what the culture is like & who the people are.

Sunshinehippymama

SweetMelissa5 said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

kyliedaniellexx said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

AnnieRoo13 said:

I'm due November 9, so I guess you don't care about how my pregnancy is going or my birth plan (

Awh i do, i just want to know who has the same due date

JW why you care since women rarely give birth on their EDD... the "estimated" is there for a reason...

Because its fun! Its neat to know who waS given this approximated birth date that matches yours, who may have gotten pregnant the same day as you, and to see if you deliver on the same day at all or if your symptoms match up around the same time i know its just estimated but its still neat to me

The thing is, this is pretty much the point of the birth month boards; you can find people who are due around the same approximate time as you, who will possibly have the same symptoms around the same time, etc. Narrowing it down to one specific day is really limiting.


Never actually thought of it like that, you have a very valid point!

lizzielu82

fartscraps???

Also, just because I feel like Heath wasn't represented in our siggys and May is almost over. So dreamy in this movie *sigh*

Maelara

brooklyngirl18 said:

ok serioulsy? for those of you ladies who have participated on other BMBs, is this a thing that happens every time or is our board cursed? or should i say blessed because this is funny every time.

Nope. This seriously never happened on my other BMB. We are cursed.

I'm going to find and bump that post @kristy774 is talking about, for your viewing pleasure. I suggest read it all because it will truly give you a feel of what this board is like.

OP, I seriously see you as harmless and maybe a bit naive. I can tell you want to commiserate with others and be a part of this BMB, even if it's just part-time. Which is fine, not everyone can be here all the time.

That said, you seriously need to take a step back and figure some shit out. You just told our beloved mod that it's ok, my due date changed too. If you had bothered to partake in pretty much any other threads but your own, you would realize that some ladies here have lost their November babies but have stayed around. @lisaren is one of them. I'm so thankful every single day she can stomach coming here. It wouldn't be the same if she wasn't here and I, we love her to pieces.

Before you do something like this again, lurk a bit. This is the last time I won't flame the crap out of you.

DoubleUp8

this is for @lisaren

Sunshinehippymama

Kllopez1221 said:

Sunshinehippymama said:

kyliedaniellexx said:

True. But if you had bothered to read any of the other 100 posts like this you would know how this was going to go

I haven't seen any other posts like this yet :S I've only been on here to look at the forum 4 times, i don't generally have time to go through a ton of posts esp to search for what silly things make people get all riled up. Just to participate in fun posts answer or ask questions

The problem with that is, you have no idea what is going on with the woman who have been here from day one. For example. You just told a woman who just lost her baby, due to a fatal diagnosis, that it was ok she wasn't due on the 19th anymore, that your due date changed too. If you had bothered AT ALL to get to know the women on this board you would have realized that. Instead you come off as a AW, who really does not care what the rest of us may be going through. It is insensitive, and rude. 

I'm terribly sorry to have offended! If i had more time for a forum in my day to day life, i probably would have taken more time to find things out like that. And I'm deeply sorry that i didn't know that, but how could i be expected to? How could anyone who doesn't know the person or the forum? my heart bleeds for her and i couldn't apologize enough for the insensitivity that it seemed i have shown her that wad never my intention. I owe her a piece ofmy heart.

Sunshinehippymama

abbyful said:

@Sunshinehippymama‌ - Here's a tip, not only for here but for all internet forums: Lurk before you post! Get an idea what the culture is like & who the people are.

Thank you for the advice, i will indeed take it to heart and learn you ladies before i post again. I kinda figured that all pregnancy forums are basically the same as the one i originated in 4 years ago when ttc, but that assumption had left me looking foolish, and i deeply apologize to those who i have harmed

missnacholover

I really, really don't understand why the bump doesn't have 365/6 due date boards.  I mean, they need to get their shit together.  Someone message BeeJ.

And, OP, I'm due on 11/11, so I guess we can't play.  I'm 8 days too cool for you.

Maelara

@Sunshinehippymama‌ we are saying we DO expect this of you and anybody else that is new. Especially considering it has been mentioned and is currently being mentioned in boards from today and yesterday. That might seem harsh but it prevents incidents like this. If you have some time before bed, take some time to look around our BMB. You will get the idea.

abbyful

Sunshinehippymama said:

I'm terribly sorry to have offended! If i had more time for a forum in my day to day life, i probably would have taken more time to find things out like that. And I'm deeply sorry that i didn't know that, but how could i be expected to? How could anyone who doesn't know the person or the forum? my heart bleeds for her and i couldn't apologize enough for the insensitivity that it seemed i have shown her that wad never my intention. I owe her a piece ofmy heart.

That's why you lurk first.
Not just here, any forum you join.

brooklyngirl18

Maelara said:

ok serioulsy? for those of you ladies who have participated on other BMBs, is this a thing that happens every time or is our board cursed? or should i say blessed because this is funny every time.

Nope. This seriously never happened on my other BMB. We are cursed. I'm going to find and bump that post @kristy774 is talking about, for your viewing pleasure. I suggest read it all because it will truly give you a feel of what this board is like. OP, I seriously see you as harmless and maybe a bit naive. I can tell you want to commiserate with others and be a part of this BMB, even if it's just part-time. Which is fine, not everyone can be here all the time. That said, you seriously need to take a step back and figure some shit out. You just told our beloved mod that it's ok, my due date changed too. If you had bothered to partake in pretty much any other threads but your own, you would realize that some ladies here have lost their November babies but have stayed around. @lisaren is one of them. I'm so thankful every single day she can stomach coming here. It wouldn't be the same if she wasn't here and I, we love her to pieces. Before you do something like this again, lurk a bit. This is the last time I won't flame the crap out of you.

beautifully said @maelara

Sunshinehippymama

Maelara said:

@Sunshinehippymama‌ we are saying we DO expect this of you and anybody else that is new. Especially considering it has been mentioned and is currently being mentioned in boards from today and yesterday. That might seem harsh but it prevents incidents like this. If you have some time before bed, take some time to look around our BMB. You will get the idea.

I will take time and learn your ways

mommymeg143

 

missnacholover said:

I really, really don't understand why the bump doesn't have 365/6 due date boards.  I mean, they need to get their shit together.  Someone message BeeJ.

And, OP, I'm due on 11/11, so I guess we can't play.  I'm 8 days too cool for you.

Exactly.  How will I ever find out who had sex the same day as me?