Deleted because I don't want anything too personal out there since you never know you reads these boards. If any of you regulars missed it and are curious you can PM me and I'd be happy to fill you in. Thanks for your insight. You all have been the most amazing resource.
Birthmom to A, 1/8- the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. -Lao-Tzu