My partner and I have a 16 month old son we conceived through at home AI from a known donor. We are ttc again with the same donor and just did our 4th cycle yesterday. I am sort of worried that the donor tampered with the sample this time and last. I am going to go in to detail so be warned. Both last time and this time as soon as I opened the container it smelled overwhelmingly tropical like lotion or soap. Last time I gave the benefit of doubt that perhaps whatever he used to do the job somehow ended up accidentally in the sample.. but it smelled just as perfumy this time. Also both times I of course ended up with a little on my fingers after I inserted.. I touch myself afterwards and both times when I was 'rubbing' there ended up being thick white on my clit, that seemed more like lotion than the sample? Also there were some bubbles. The final major worry this time is that after ward when I peed the toilet filled with bubbles..that's never happened before, and most of the sample was still inside of me because I have a softcup inserted.
I hope I am being paranoid but I can't shake the bad feeling. If it is tampered with I am going to be heartbroken. I don't know anyone else who would be interested to donate and we're certainly not in the financial position to go through sperm banks. I feel so lost!