I am currently 11 weeks pregnant and the dad wants nothing to do with being a father because he isn't ready, like most 23 year old boys. But he wants me to lie and say I don't know who the dad is so that he doesn't have to pay child support. I want to ask him to sign over his rights but my family (big brothers mostly) don't think i should let him get away with that. He wanted me to get an abortion which I couldn't do, so I feel like he should get some say in where he stands. Is that completely insane to "let him off the hook" like that? Had anybody else been in this situation?