beards and tattoos

MinnesotaMomma91

Inspired by @laurstarx and is convo about how we love men with beards and tattoos.

Physically, what attracts you to a man? For me theres of course a nice full beard and tattoos. But i also loooove tall men. I like a man with muscles and bulk.

On bf i love his long hair. Mmmm.

This is the best pic i could snab of bf watching nascar

laurstarx

Well obviously I, too, love beards and tattoos. I also need a goofy guy cause I'm a weirdo and no normal guy could put up with me lol

I also don't want my man to be skin and bones.. Cause I don't want to feel like I'm gonna break him haha. And dark hair.

MinnesotaMomma91

I cant be with a scrawny dude. I love kinky sex and it would be weird to get freaky with a guy whose not even be big enough to be dominating.

freeatlast2014

I'm not into beards or tattoos. I typically go for the dark hair Italian metrosexual beefy guys, HOWEVER I'm going to go the total opposite next time around cause clearly that wasnt working for me!

MinnesotaMomma91

The dirty scruffy men is where its at

20thirteen

I don't know, dude, I went from dirty scruffy to a guy that showers at least once a day. Who has a little scruff. My BF is a total upgrade in every way. And I'm not saying that just because I hate BD. BD would literally go a week without a shower and try to get in my pants, and I was like "uh... How about in the shower...?" Mostly because I couldn't understand why he didn't shower all that often. So, most of the time he thought I was being sexy by rubbing soap all over me and then all over him was more like a tutorial "this is how you use soap" I would think to myself. LOL. Wow, red flag. Anyway, BF showers once a day or once every other day. But definitely goes out of his way to shower before we have sex. I know this sounds weird, but that is totally adorable to me. But I've always seen cleanliness as sort of a respect thing. Which is another thing I look back on my relationship with BD and think "he wouldn't shower! No respect!"

But that also is probably a "me" thing.

MinnesotaMomma91

No thats a hygene thing @roxalot. Bf is scruffy not gross haha. Also nothing wrong with showering. And dieing over here that you had to give him soap tutorials.

20thirteen

You did say "dirty". LOL! I know what you meant, though ;D

MinnesotaMomma91

Lol i meant in a he just did the lawn work shirtless kinda way. I like watching bf do lawnwork

AllieAlba

I like my men tall and lean and a little bit arrogant, though to be honest, I once had sex with a guy who weighed significantly less than me, I think, and it was some of the best sex I've ever had, so a little bit scrawny doesn't bother me. I can go either way with tattoos, I neither dislike them not particularly like them, but I don't do beards. Clean shaven is where I'm at. If XFI had more than a teeny bit stubble I wouldn't go near him. It's too jaggy!

MinnesotaMomma91

@Alliealba dont worry youcan have my share of the clean shaven men

freeatlast2014

You guys rock!

MinnesotaMomma91

@Roxalot my random thought of the morning. Bf always has greasy hair because he lives in baseball caps and his heas sweats. I was giving him a scalp massage sunday at his parents and his mom couldnt believe i was touching his hair.
Bfs is probably the cleanest hair i touch in a day, my own included in that. I wash my hair once a week(i shower every day, i just dont wash my hair)

MinnesotaMomma91

@Beccaga16 isnt it funny how once you find the right guy you become attracted to him and that old type kinda becomes irrelavent?

Btw men who are teddy bears are awesome

MinnesotaMomma91

@Beccaga16 my bf is a brat and wouldnt take a picture with me, but i personally think hes aged well. At 18 he was super scrawny and a big party boy.

jellybean529

I like nerdy guys. Body type isn't THAT important to me as long as he doesn't smell...lol. But I'm more attracted to smarts than anything else. And glasses. And no facial hair. (I guess I'll also be taking some of your share of clean shaven guys, @minnesotamomma91!)

20thirteen

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

@Roxalot my random thought of the morning. Bf always has greasy hair because he lives in baseball caps and his heas sweats. I was giving him a scalp massage sunday at his parents and his mom couldnt believe i was touching his hair. Bfs is probably the cleanest hair i touch in a day, my own included in that. I wash my hair once a week(i shower every day, i just dont wash my hair)

My BF always wears a hat, too! And he hasn't cut his hair in almost a year, so it's almost ponytail length. Last July he shaved his head and he has grown his hair out since.  I don't care what his hair looks like, he's the kind of guy who looks good no matter what length his hair is!  But, unless we're in bed, he's always got that damn hat on! 

MinnesotaMomma91

@Roxalot the only way bfs hat comes off when were not in bed is if he wants his head massaged. Which i dont mind. Now that i dont have my own hair to play with, ill happily play with his hair. Bfs hair is long enough for a pony tail. I think he looks good with lobg or short hair, but i prefer his ling hair because its just more him

@Jellybean529 your welcome to all my share of men. But you and @alliealba will have to fight over the clean shaven ones

tig594

Must be taller than me and have a man's body.  I can't do skinny short dudes.  Like someone said previously, I need to feel like I'm with a guy.  I dated a dude once (when I was about 40 pounds lighter) and I could wear his jeans. He was a super nice guy from a good family with a great job but physically it just didn't work for me. 

I also like dark hair, preferably black.  Tattoos don't bother me as long as they are tasteful and can be covered if necessary.  I prefer no facial hair but can tolerate a mustache/goatee.  Full beard?  Not for me, thanks.  : )

That said, I've had some pretty intense chemistry with a couple guys who didn't fit my preference whatsoever.  

MinnesotaMomma91

@Tig594 i think anyone who says theyve NEVER had chenistry with some who isnt their usual type is a liar. Ive had some awesome chemistry with clean shaven scrawny guys. One guy who comes to mind was fice five no tattoos, no facial hair, but we had intense chemistry. Unfortunatly he was bad in bed so tge chemistry only extended so far. But even bd wasnt my usual type