I'm due with my second in October and my daughter will be 21 months at that time. I had my 19 week check up today and starting crying on the way home. This pregnancy was a surprise and while I"m so excited for another little one, I'm just so worried that I won't be able to love this new baby as much as I do my daughter. With my first pregnancy, I was so absorbed in all things pregnancy and it was all I thought about. These days it's a miracle if I remember how far along I am! I feel that I'm not as connected to this pregnancy as I was my first and I know part of it is probably because I'm much more busy chasing around a toddler. But I just feel guilty for feeling this way. Are these just my crazy pregnancy hormones talking or has anyone else felt this way? Thanks Ladies!
Re: Is this just my hormones taking over?
Things will be different for sure, having two is so different from just one so you likely won't be able to do for your 2nd everything that you did for your first. For example we have 20x the pictures of my first at this age than we do for our second. When that happens don't feel guilty - just remind yourself that its not because you love your 2nd any less its because your so damn busy!