I understand that the average Short Term Disability (STD) pay is 6 weeks for vaginal and 8 weeks for C-section. Did any of the MoMs get extra time since it was twins? Trying to get the most out of my insurance and have fewest weeks without pay.
I did not. I was eligible for STD through the state in which I am employed. You have to check w your employer to see if you have to exhaust all of your PTO prior to STD kicking in or not. For me, I had my STD begin when I gave birth (the date the "disability" began) and it ended 8w after that bc I had a c/s. After that, I was able to get 4 addl wks but I don't remember how - MH did all the paperwork for me - and then at the very end, I took PTO days.
So even though I didn't get addl STD, I was able to get paid (not my full wage, but something) for most of my leave.
What gets me is that I have the STD for 90 days, but from what I have read the norm is to allow the 6 or 8 weeks. I be able to use vaca and sick as well, but would like to use all of my 4 months of Tn FMLA with something coming in. We really need to work on having some sort of paid time off for maternity, truthfully I can't see myself being productive until these 2 are sleeping through the night. We pay for the STD, we should be able to use all of it.
Check your summary plan description. If you don't have that, ask your plan administrator for a copy. It should be in there. Unlike FMLA which takes into consideration bonding, a STD is probably only going to look at your physical ability to work, but check the plan documents.
Also, we're not sleeping through the night here at 7 months. You learn to deal with the sleep deprivation. Even if you got 3 months of STD there's a chance you'll still be getting up in the middle of the night when you go back to work.
The one instance where you get extra time for having multiples is if your state specifically has a law in place (unpaid and completely separate from FMLA and STD) that allows for it. MA is one state that offers longer unpaid job protection for MoMs. FMLA's 12wks usually runs concurrently with whatever leave your employer and state may allow. As far as STD extras for multiples, I highly doubt they'd allow it and if they did, it would be an individual policy provision. The 90 days is probably your annual max, of which L&D recovery is limited to 6 or 8 weeks depending on the type of delivery. STD only pays out for your time recovering from childbirth and, barring major complications, most women are physically able to work before the 6 or 8 weeks is over.
I hate to break it to you, but I wouldn't count on them sleeping through the night by the time you have to go back to work even with extra time off. Mine didn't STTN consistently till 7.5mos (which actually isn't too bad) so it was pretty far past the typical maternity leave time frame.
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My policy included the standard 6 weeks for vaginal/8 weeks for c-section. One thing to consider is taking a few weeks of STD before your twins are born, which your doctor will probably recommend anyway if you make it to 33+ weeks. You will still get the 6/8 weeks after they are born, but will be able to get more out of your policy.
The other thing that sucks about these policies is that many of them require you to exhaust your vacation/sick time before collecting on them. I had enough PTO to get me through a couple of months of leave after my twins were born and so was not able to collect on my STD at all. Make sure you look into all of this because you don't want to be blindsided after the fact!
TTC #2 since July 2010
FSH = 11 (20 on day 10 of CCCT)/ AMH = .98 / AFC=12ish
5 IUI's with oral meds = all BFN March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days
I got pulled out of work prior to delivery and my STD did not cover that portion as pregnancy complications didn't fall under the allowable 'sick' explanations. So be sure to check into that to see what your policy covers.
What gets me is that I have the STD for 90 days, but from what I have read the norm is to allow the 6 or 8 weeks. I be able to use vaca and sick as well, but would like to use all of my 4 months of Tn FMLA with something coming in. We really need to work on having some sort of paid time off for maternity, truthfully I can't see myself being productive until these 2 are sleeping through the night. We pay for the STD, we should be able to use all of it.
Are you in Tennessee? I think I gathered this in your post, but sorry if I mis-read. Tennessee has a maternity leave act, which protects you for 16 weeks. This however runs concurrent with your company's FMLA and STD. Unfortunately it doesn't pay either. I am in TN and work for a 500+ employee firm and by benefits are as follows: 6w for vaginal 8w for c-section covered by STD at 90% of my pay. This runs with my FMLA and the TN MLA time. I then use what PTO I have left for the remainder (I hope to have 3 weeks saved). The rest I take off with no pay, but my position is protected. Unfortunately there really isn't a way to maximize pay with maternity leave unless you can use PTO hours but in TN you can take off 4 months and be protected under the law.
Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart! #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14 M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
Yep in Tn, so I was told about the 4 months vs 12 weeks so that is good. I was just hoping to extend the STD coverage due to multiples. My STD is 60% of salary for 90 days, but it seems I will only be able to use 42 to 56 days of that, poo. It just sucks that we pay for this benefit and can't apply it to "bonding" time.
@palan and @4legsRbest I'm in TN too! West TN/Memphis here. I'm checking into this same information right now with my employer..
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Me: 32, DH: 34 / TTC since February 2011 / SA: all normal, HSG: all clear! / on Lovenox for anticardiolipid antibodies 4 IUIs with Clomid, Letrozole, and Menopur. All BFN. 9/12: lap / hysteroscopy: found and removed mild endometriosis, cervical polyp, and 2 para-tubular cysts 5/13 IVF #1: Follistim, Menopur, Ganirelix, 10R/4M/4F, ET of 2, 5 cell and 4 cell, no frosties = BFN 12/13 IVF #2 = November / December 2013. Microdose Lupron Protocol: 15R/6M/6F, Froze all 6 due to high E2 and P4 FET 1: Jan 22, 2014 of one 4AB blast and one 3BB blast (3 blasts on ice!) BFP on HPT 4dp5dt, Beta #1 9dp5dt: 310, Beta #2 11dp5dt: 899 First u/s on 2/17/14: TWINS!!!!! both w/HBs of 114 at 6w3d, HBs 150 and 152 at 7w5d 5/27/2014: Team purple!!!! EDD 10/10/2014 /
Delivered by c-section at 32w0d 8/15/2014 due to preeclampsia/HELLP syndrome Baby Boy 4lbs 1oz, 17 inches Baby Girl 3lbs 5oz, 16 inches
@Aurora1181 - I am from Memphis (still have family in Jackson, Senatobia, MS and Cordova) and some spread as far as Nashville, but I am currenlty residing in Knoxville. I love TN - all of it!!!
Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart! #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14 M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
Yep in Tn, so I was told about the 4 months vs 12 weeks so that is good. I was just hoping to extend the STD coverage due to multiples. My STD is 60% of salary for 90 days, but it seems I will only be able to use 42 to 56 days of that, poo. It just sucks that we pay for this benefit and can't apply it to "bonding" time.
So much about maternity care and maternity leave is wrong in this country... I even have to fight to keep a personal fridge to store pumped breast milk in and for a private comfortable place to pump in. Excuse me? Put my child's only source of nutrition in a community fridge??? Yeah, not gonna happen.
Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart! #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14 M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
@Aurora1181 - I am from Memphis (still have family in Jackson, Senatobia, MS and Cordova) and some spread as far as Nashville, but I am currenlty residing in Knoxville. I love TN - all of it!!!
Oh neat!! I lived in Knoxville for 5 years (bachelors and Masters from UTK) and LOVED it. I miss it!
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Me: 32, DH: 34 / TTC since February 2011 / SA: all normal, HSG: all clear! / on Lovenox for anticardiolipid antibodies 4 IUIs with Clomid, Letrozole, and Menopur. All BFN. 9/12: lap / hysteroscopy: found and removed mild endometriosis, cervical polyp, and 2 para-tubular cysts 5/13 IVF #1: Follistim, Menopur, Ganirelix, 10R/4M/4F, ET of 2, 5 cell and 4 cell, no frosties = BFN 12/13 IVF #2 = November / December 2013. Microdose Lupron Protocol: 15R/6M/6F, Froze all 6 due to high E2 and P4 FET 1: Jan 22, 2014 of one 4AB blast and one 3BB blast (3 blasts on ice!) BFP on HPT 4dp5dt, Beta #1 9dp5dt: 310, Beta #2 11dp5dt: 899 First u/s on 2/17/14: TWINS!!!!! both w/HBs of 114 at 6w3d, HBs 150 and 152 at 7w5d 5/27/2014: Team purple!!!! EDD 10/10/2014 /
Delivered by c-section at 32w0d 8/15/2014 due to preeclampsia/HELLP syndrome Baby Boy 4lbs 1oz, 17 inches Baby Girl 3lbs 5oz, 16 inches
I had to use STD at work because I had been at my job less than one year, so I did not qualify for FMLA. I was really down about that because I wanted as much time off as possible with my babies. I ended up talking to my doctor at my 6 week appt. and he gave me two more weeks off. My girls were in the NICU for 3 wks, I hated the thought of only have 3 weeks at home with them.
we have STD which kicks in the day your doctor puts you out if needed. You get 2/3 pay and then once the babies are born you get 2/3 pay for 6 weeks for vaginal and 8 for c-section. You do not have to use your vacation or sick time prior to the std. i'm in a tough spot since my twins are due at the end of november. my sick time rolls over but vacation does not. so if i go out in October i have had to use all my vacation time by then or lose it. which stinks since i get 2/3 and lose my 100% paid days off. My sick time can roll over to the next year. i'm in NJ if that helps.
Re: Short Term Disability and Multiples
So even though I didn't get addl STD, I was able to get paid (not my full wage, but something) for most of my leave.
I hate to break it to you, but I wouldn't count on them sleeping through the night by the time you have to go back to work even with extra time off. Mine didn't STTN consistently till 7.5mos (which actually isn't too bad) so it was pretty far past the typical maternity leave time frame.
TTC #2 since July 2010
March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
Me: 32, DH: 34 / TTC since February 2011 / SA: all normal, HSG: all clear! / on Lovenox for anticardiolipid antibodies
4 IUIs with Clomid, Letrozole, and Menopur. All BFN.
9/12: lap / hysteroscopy: found and removed mild endometriosis, cervical polyp, and 2 para-tubular cysts
5/13 IVF #1: Follistim, Menopur, Ganirelix, 10R/4M/4F, ET of 2, 5 cell and 4 cell, no frosties = BFN
12/13 IVF #2 = November / December 2013. Microdose Lupron Protocol: 15R/6M/6F, Froze all 6 due to high E2 and P4
FET 1: Jan 22, 2014 of one 4AB blast and one 3BB blast (3 blasts on ice!)
BFP on HPT 4dp5dt, Beta #1 9dp5dt: 310, Beta #2 11dp5dt: 899
First u/s on 2/17/14: TWINS!!!!! both w/HBs of 114 at 6w3d, HBs 150 and 152 at 7w5d
5/27/2014: Team purple!!!! EDD 10/10/2014 /
Baby Boy 4lbs 1oz, 17 inches
Baby Girl 3lbs 5oz, 16 inches
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!
Me: 32, DH: 34 / TTC since February 2011 / SA: all normal, HSG: all clear! / on Lovenox for anticardiolipid antibodies
4 IUIs with Clomid, Letrozole, and Menopur. All BFN.
9/12: lap / hysteroscopy: found and removed mild endometriosis, cervical polyp, and 2 para-tubular cysts
5/13 IVF #1: Follistim, Menopur, Ganirelix, 10R/4M/4F, ET of 2, 5 cell and 4 cell, no frosties = BFN
12/13 IVF #2 = November / December 2013. Microdose Lupron Protocol: 15R/6M/6F, Froze all 6 due to high E2 and P4
FET 1: Jan 22, 2014 of one 4AB blast and one 3BB blast (3 blasts on ice!)
BFP on HPT 4dp5dt, Beta #1 9dp5dt: 310, Beta #2 11dp5dt: 899
First u/s on 2/17/14: TWINS!!!!! both w/HBs of 114 at 6w3d, HBs 150 and 152 at 7w5d
5/27/2014: Team purple!!!! EDD 10/10/2014 /
Baby Boy 4lbs 1oz, 17 inches
Baby Girl 3lbs 5oz, 16 inches