Late Term and Child Loss

Another loss :(

Hey ladies.  I just need to get this out and some of you might understand. 

On Jan 15 we discovered we lost our son at 24 weeks.  Our doctor gave us the go ahead to TTC after our check-up.  We went for it and got KU the first month trying (never expected that to happen).  Throughout the pg I never felt like it was "good."  I ended up getting betas drawn, the numbers were not doubling that quickly.  That lead to 1st u/s, baby was measuring behind without a hb.  2nd u/s, baby had gown the week (but still really behind) and had a hb of 80.  This u/s was actually on my son's EDD (WTF?!). 

Today's u/s at 9w showed no growth or hb.  Tonight I start medication to move the m/c along.

I just can't believe I lost another baby within 5 months.  :(  My heart is broken.  DH's heart is broken. 

BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                              <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • MCH77MCH77 member

    I'm just so tired.  My OB is sending me to another dr to get testing done. Don't know what that involves yet.    No matter what we will be taking the summer off from TTC. My body, mind, heart needs to rest. :(

    Thank you for the support ladies.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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    edited May 2014
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  • I'm so sorry...I've miscarried twice since my late loss and it really, really hurts so I am feeling for you.  ((hugs)) 

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    I am so so sorry ((hugs))
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    So sorry to hear that about your losses. I definitely understand that you need to rest, but please try not to feel too defeated! It's really terrible that you have to deal with all of this.

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    I'm so sorry

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

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    I'm so sorry. ((Hugs)) to you.
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  • I'm so sorry. It's all just so unfair
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    It's so unfair, I'm so sorry.  My heart hurts for you.
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    I am so very very sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).
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  • I'm so terribly sorry to hear this. Huge hugs.

     
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    Thanks girls

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • I am so sorry for your loss it just breaks my heart when I read this happening again to any one of us here.*hugs* xo
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    I know this is coming after all of the other posts, but I am so, so sorry. My heart is broken for you guys. Sending so many hugs.






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    I am so, so sorry for your losses. I completely understand how you feel. After losing our daughter at 30 weeks, I got pregnant again and found out at the first appointment that it was a blighted ovum. Life is so unfair. Take care of yourself and find consolation in those you love. It truly helps. Lots of hugs, hun.



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    edited June 2014
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  • I am so very sorry to hear this; I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. ((big hugs))

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    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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