TTC again after two losses

sjaos

I have recently decided to TTC again 3 months ago.  A few years ago I had two losses and wanted to wait to TTC.  These are some of the things I have done.

u/s for shape of uterus

blood work for ovulation

blood work for progesterone

SFA

and possibly looking at my tubes soon

 

I am possibly going to start Clomid and I am on progesterone.

 

It is really difficult to be patient and not get completely frustrated but I think the more I talk about it the more I don't even want to think about it.  Maybe it will help if I don't think about it so much.   

sjaos

 

mcnsher0627 said:

Welcome, and I'm sorry for your losses. I too am TTC after two losses. With Clomid, will you be monitored by an RE? I haven't been offered it yet, but after reading stories here, I know how important proper monitoring is. There is lots of great info in the newbie blog. Being patient is difficult. That's why I love this board! It's a great place to give and get support.

It seems like it is more supportive than some of the other boards.  I really appreciate your response, this is the first time I have ever used message boards.  I will be a high risk patient because I have Sjogrens Syndrome and the antibody SS-B and my high risk  has suggested I go back to my RE to continue my care until I get pregnant.   She recommended this because they are through the same hospital and she will be able to see everything that we are doing.  I currently see an ob that is through a different hospital and by what everyone is saying on another board I should definitely be seeing a RE, not an ob for all of this. 

Elliecat17

I'm TTC after 2 losses too. I feel just as nervous as you, although I have not been through any tests since my doctors aren't worried yet. We will all be here with you as you wait!!

Keep us updated!

stephy1221

I am sorry for your losses, welcoem to the board. 

sjaos

Thank you, I have had really nice responses on this board.  I am sorry for your losses and I hope all goes well for you.  I will definitely keep everyone updated!

sjaos

Elliecat17 said:

I'm TTC after 2 losses too. I feel just as nervous as you, although I have not been through any tests since my doctors aren't worried yet. We will all be here with you as you wait!!

Keep us updated!

Forgot to quote you, I am not sure it notifies you if I don't use the quote?

Thank you, I have had really nice responses on this board.  I am sorry for your losses and I hope all goes well for you.  I will definitely keep everyone updated!

jesswein9

Sorry for your losses.  There are a lot of really supportive ladies on these boards here.  I have quickly come to realize that sometimes the women within these boards are the only ones that truly know and understand exactly what I am going through.  So lean on all of that support, we are all here for each other!  I am TTC after 3 losses.  It certainly is difficult to be patient like you have said, but hopefully with the support of your doctors you will be able to be monitored closely and have a successful pregnancy very soon.  Welcome!

rubysi

Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.

sjaos

jesswein9 said:

Sorry for your losses.  There are a lot of really supportive ladies on these boards here.  I have quickly come to realize that sometimes the women within these boards are the only ones that truly know and understand exactly what I am going through.  So lean on all of that support, we are all here for each other!  I am TTC after 3 losses.  It certainly is difficult to be patient like you have said, but hopefully with the support of your doctors you will be able to be monitored closely and have a successful pregnancy very soon.  Welcome!

Thank you and all of the ladies for the responses.  I am sorry for your losses. They are recommending I take progesterone and Clomid on my next cycle.  I hope to have success with it!

sjaos

rubysi said:

Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.

Thank you, I had to tell you that I really like this!

sjaos

The SFA was good! They just let me know.

LittleMrsW

I'm sorry for your losses. I hope your stay here is short and sweet.

BookishMomma

I'm sorry for your losses. There are many of us here who have had 2 or more losses. It's hard but there is hope. ((Hugs))

kr_ry

I am sorry for your losses. I am also starting to ttcal after my next cycle or 2.

smcniff

So sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.

sjaos

kryan108 said:

I am sorry for your losses. I am also starting to ttcal after my next cycle or 2.

I am sorry for the losses.  It's great that your tests and levels are normal.  After some tests I did that were normal they checked my progesterone, which I need to do again and I am in the process of  getting on progesterone and Clomid but I might see another RE because of some suggestions I have got on another board.  Overall it is just a frustrating process and I hope all goes well for you.

sjaos

maryhr1 said:

So sorry for your losses. I am also just off the bench and TTCAL as well after two losses. It is very scary. I don't think that will ever go away. I find my daily sanity here thanks to all of these wonderful ladies. I wish you well. >:D<

I am sorry for your losses.  You are right about it not going away.  I try not to think about it, so I can stay positive about TTC now but it is difficult.  I hope all goes well for you!

sjaos

BookishMomma said:

I'm sorry for your losses. There are many of us here who have had 2 or more losses. It's hard but there is hope. ((Hugs))

I am sorry for your losses.  It has been really nice to talk to others that have had the same experiences and are really supportive!

sjaos

LittleMrsW said:

I'm sorry for your losses. I hope your stay here is short and sweet.

I hope that for everyone as well!

sjaos

Thanks again for all of the responses, you ladies are wonderful!

lyndz333

Sorry for your losses. I'm a newb and have no information to share, but I did want to share my sympathies.

alm288

I'm very sorry for your losses. I hope you find the support you are looking for here. Welcome.

Buttercup509

I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome.

sjaos

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

PinkCamino

So sorry for your loss.

BethKate2

sjaos said:

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

Thanks for updating in this thread and not starting a new one, but I'm wondering, do you plan on sticking around on this board? This is your first post on this board (or any bump board) in over a month, and the majority of your posts have been only on the threads you've started. If you're looking for support through this journey, this is a great board, but you need to give support to get support, and you need to give us time to get to know you. Right now, we don't know you.

Miglin

Good news that at least one is open!  That's hopeful. 

goldengirl84

I'm so sorry for your losses. I have had 3 losses this year (technically chemical pregnancies) but I know it is super scary. I hope you stick around to find out what a great board this really is.

LaRomana09

BethKate2 said:

sjaos said:

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

Thanks for updating in this thread and not starting a new one, but I'm wondering, do you plan on sticking around on this board? This is your first post on this board (or any bump board) in over a month, and the majority of your posts have been only on the threads you've started. If you're looking for support through this journey, this is a great board, but you need to give support to get support, and you need to give us time to get to know you. Right now, we don't know you.

All of this.  

[Deleted User]

So sorry for your losses, but congrats on the good new and good luck! 

BABY5395

So sorry about your losses I hope you find the support that you need here. 

O2girl

Welcome. I'm so sorry for your losses.xo

BethKate2

I don't think people are noticing that this intro was from a month ago...

sjaos

BethKate2 said:

sjaos said:

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

Thanks for updating in this thread and not starting a new one, but I'm wondering, do you plan on sticking around on this board? This is your first post on this board (or any bump board) in over a month, and the majority of your posts have been only on the threads you've started. If you're looking for support through this journey, this is a great board, but you need to give support to get support, and you need to give us time to get to know you. Right now, we don't know you.

I have been on some other discussions to provide support, however I do own two businesses so I don't have a lot of time.  I didn't want to have this posted and not give an update because I have seen that happen and people want to know how things are going. 

LaRomana09

sjaos said:

BethKate2 said:

sjaos said:

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

Thanks for updating in this thread and not starting a new one, but I'm wondering, do you plan on sticking around on this board? This is your first post on this board (or any bump board) in over a month, and the majority of your posts have been only on the threads you've started. If you're looking for support through this journey, this is a great board, but you need to give support to get support, and you need to give us time to get to know you. Right now, we don't know you.

I have been on some other discussions to provide support, however I do own two businesses so I don't have a lot of time.  I didn't want to have this posted and not give an update because I have seen that happen and people want to know how things are going. 

1. Since you posted this thread on 5/15, you haven't replied to a single thread on this board or any other TB board.

2. Everyone on this board has commitments, but we make time to support one another when we can.

3. I don't mean this to sound harsh, but if you post an intro and then don't come back for over a month, nobody is wondering how things are going because nobody knows who you are, as evidenced by the fact that people are responding thinking that this is your intro.

If you want to participate on this board, we would love to have you, but give support to get support.

BethKate2

LaRomana09 said:

sjaos said:

BethKate2 said:

sjaos said:

Just wanted to give an update.  I had an ultrasound with dye to check my tubes and it was one of the worst and most painful things I have ever had to do.  They had to stop before they could tell me if both of my tubes were open.  I know that my right tube is open, so I can get pregnant!  They said that my left tube could also be open but they had to stop.  At least I know that one of my tubes is open and maybe I will get lucky in the next few months because you can have a greater chance of getting pregnant after the dye goes through your tubes! 

Thanks for updating in this thread and not starting a new one, but I'm wondering, do you plan on sticking around on this board? This is your first post on this board (or any bump board) in over a month, and the majority of your posts have been only on the threads you've started. If you're looking for support through this journey, this is a great board, but you need to give support to get support, and you need to give us time to get to know you. Right now, we don't know you.

I have been on some other discussions to provide support, however I do own two businesses so I don't have a lot of time.  I didn't want to have this posted and not give an update because I have seen that happen and people want to know how things are going. 

1. Since you posted this thread on 5/15, you haven't replied to a single thread on this board or any other TB board.

2. Everyone on this board has commitments, but we make time to support one another when we can.

3. I don't mean this to sound harsh, but if you post an intro and then don't come back for over a month, nobody is wondering how things are going because nobody knows who you are, as evidenced by the fact that people are responding thinking that this is your intro.

If you want to participate on this board, we would love to have you, but give support to get support.

This was my point. Particularly #3.

If you want to stick around, great! Don't just post about yourself and disappear for a month. Get to know us, and let us get to know you.

LaRomana09

@BethKate2‌ I hope your appt today went/goes well! Be sure to update us!

BethKate2

@LaRomana09, thanks for thinking of me! I read your post as I was sitting in the waiting room, so it was perfect timing. I wrote an update in my OP.

jjbmstinco

Welcome.  I am sorry to hear about your losses!

sjaos

I am leaving an update again I know I'm not on the board very often and I will probably be leaving because I don't seem to post enough to others but I figured I would give one more update. I lost my only good tube yesterday with an ectopic pregnancy and I only have IVF as an option now.

sjaos

I did want to say thank you to everyone that gave me some support while on this board. I hope I was able to give some support to the boards I posted on, I know it wasn't a lot.