Abbreviations: how do I know which to use?

kaiyagirl29

I usually see people using letters to abbreviate words like "husband" or "son" and I have never used a message board prior to this so I was wondering how you know which to use or did I miss something about it while signing up?

kellsnajay

I am in the same boat, lol. I usually see a listing on the message boards but can't seem to find one here

Autumray

Here you go ladies Most are here