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New Here:)
jessjones2014
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Hello everyone I am new here ! Partially because I just got married 4/26! But I was just wanting to say Hello and ask if anyone else has this. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and just got married he's said he wants to have a baby more than anything and so do I but he keeps saying he doesn't know. Is there anything I could tell him to help him get over this being unsure about it all of a sudden. We've both known we've wanted kids and now were married and I feel like even though we are newlyweds we are ready to take this next step. We lived together before we were married so we know how each other lives and is organized. Thanks for any words of advice! 
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Re: New Here:)
Welcome.
Ask him why he doesn't know. Is he worried about his lifestyle changing? Is he worried about how to afford a child? Does he want to spend a certain amount of time with you 2 just being married before being parents? Once you know the reason, you can work it out from there.