Let's play the What If game...
What if you had your baby with your ex PRIOR to this father? How do you think things would be different?
Ummm my ex before ManChild was the closet drug dealer addict so that would have obviously been no good. I would have however, gotten a massive payday since he was $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and had like 3 different trusts. I know I'd be getting child support, I know his mom would probably be practically living with us bc she'd be so excited (she's best friends with my mom now and helped throw my shower and saw her when we were in FL), & who knows what he would do. I'm sure his mom and dad would probably push him to be around, but I'm not 100% convinced he would be. He had his head so far up his ass. I hated his brother and his brother hated me so we'd probably have some SERIOUS family drama, to the point his bro would probably be parading hoes in front of him to entice him away from me. I don't think he'd be willing to give up his playboy, do what I want, Joe Cool life. We discussed WHAT IF and he swore up and down he'd take our kid if I decided I didn't want one instead of me having an abortion but I to this day, never ever picture him having children. EVER
In a nutshell, it would have been another nightmare all but financially. I'd be in a miserable relationship with a cheater and a drug dealer or single and forced to live in Florida and miserable.
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
Re: What If...
Throwing leaves
Going back one more, daddy would have been an ex who is English and lives across the pond. Wonder how that would have turned out....