Hi! I'm a FTM, and my daughter was born on March 11th. I'm a teacher, and am taking the rest of the school year off. I'm also taking the next school year off without pay. I'm really struggling about the whole work thing. My dream is to stay at home and raise my daughter. I know how fast time goes and how precious it is, and I don't want to regret missing that time with her. My husband makes enough that I don't need to work. My parents think I'm making the wrong decision by quitting my job and giving up my retirement. My mom would watch her if I went back to work. I guess my question to you wonderful ladies is how did you handle the whole retirement future thing? To me, there isn't a job that's more important than being a mother. I would truly appreciate any advice. Sorry so long, but thanks so much for listening!!!
Re: Advice please!
TL;DR version- If you are worried you will regret it, then stay home with her.
My point? You've been a SAHM for 2 months. Give it some time before you make a decision. You could love it, or things could happen that change your views about being a working mom.