Parenting

Is this normal?

I suffered from pretty bad PPD. It left me feeling overwhelmed and angry, pretty much for the first 8 months of J's life. Lately I'm feeling overwhelmed again. Getting the housework done, working full time, and chasing a very rambunctious toddler is exhausting. I also have two dogs, one who has special needs. H helps a Lot but I still feel like I can't get it all done. One of my biggest issues is some slight OCD, leaving me unable to just let things be around the house. I feel in chaos if things aren't in order. So I guess my question is, are other moms feeling this way, or is my PPD potentially rearing it's ugly head again. I am currently med free but considering going back to the doctor. I don't explode anymore like I used to, but I feel snappy, unrested, and generally stressed. Does it have to be this way? Any help is appreciated.
Started TTC 2/2009
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"

....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!

Re: Is this normal?

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  • Thanks! I think my gut says to go back to the doctor. My job is also becoming less family friendly by the day, so that is probably contributing. I have a very demanding position and have been considering rethinking my career.
    Started TTC 2/2009
    Started fertility treatments 11/2010
    Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
    6 failed medicated IUI's
    Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
    Decided to adopt - 6/2012
    SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
    Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
    Decided to be "One and Done"

    ....OR NOT.
    Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
    Here we go again...
    Due 8/26/19!
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  • Thanks. Although it sucks that we have to experience this, there is some comfort in knowing I'm not the only one who feels overwhelmed by this whole mom thing. It's way different than I expected. Amazingly awesome, but way different.
    Started TTC 2/2009
    Started fertility treatments 11/2010
    Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
    6 failed medicated IUI's
    Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
    Decided to adopt - 6/2012
    SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
    Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
    Decided to be "One and Done"

    ....OR NOT.
    Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
    Here we go again...
    Due 8/26/19!
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