Third-Party Reproduction

Updated on ED

My IPs got me the update on the ED to me late as they got it late. They didn't get allot of details but she made it to her app today(thank God) they said everything is ok & we are moving forward. IDK what ok means & really wish my IPs new more. This is hard for me it must be ten times harder for my IPs which I hate. I wish I could do more & I can't & that sucks. Such a helpless feeling which I am sure my IPs feel during this whole thing & just makes my heart go out to them more. It's getting a bit of what they feel & makes me understand this journey a bit more. Just want this to work for them so bad to give Garrett a sib/sibs
We hope to know more tomorrow, fingers crossed
Sorry for the vent

Re: Updated on ED

  • Hang in there lady! You are very sweet and empathetic toward your IPs, and best to just trust something with the ED came up and now that things are back on track, just think about going forward and not looking back! (This helped me in my cycle with a delay, etc.). FX it's a great outcome!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


  • I know I've said it before but I admire how dedicated you are to this process and your IPs! I'm sure they are very grateful for you. Hang in there, and I'm so glad that the transfer is still on. Fingers crossed!

    ************ Signature/Ticker Warning ************
    Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
    Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
    DH: Severe MFI

    12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN 
    8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)

    My ovaries are just for decoration

    12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
    2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts. 
    2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
    3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.

    6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!
    9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
    9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
    9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d. :(

    11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
    11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
    Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522  Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373 
    6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!

    Snowflake baby is a girl! 
    Our beautiful Snowflake girl arrived on July 22, 2014!   
    My embryo adoption blog: Wishing on a Snowflake
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  • Thank you Both :)

    Trying to not worry about it as its out of my hands & the stress is not good when trying to get PG here soon.

    @ Liz oh thank you!!

    Should have a update on the ED on Friday & maybe a better time gram for transfer as well.
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