Late Term and Child Loss

PgAL Check-In

hope this finds you all well and positive this week! If you have any questions you would like answered, please don't be shy! You can also ask the PAL ladies. Grow little ones, grow!

~~~Ladies, big apologies for dropping the ball on posting the check-in!  I vow to be better in the weeks ahead!  Big congratulations to @ajsweeton on the arrival of your precious rainbows!  And sending lots of safe and healthy labor vibes to @Bayberry12 who was induced yesterday and @MrsNice who was scheduled to be induced today!~~~


How far along are you?

Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?

Any pregnancy symptoms or pregnancy cravings or aversions?

QOTW:  Have there been any instances in this pregnancy that have been similar to last time?  Good or bad. 

Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
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  • How far along are you? 20 wks 3 days

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones? I have an appt next week, hopefully we can find out the gender.

    Any pregnancy symptoms or pregnancy cravings or aversions? Craving cheese

    QOTW:  Have there been any instances in this pregnancy that have been similar to last time? NO  Good or bad. 

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Im starting to feel baby moving and it's so beautiful, I never felt Emily move this much and that makes me sad. But Im soaking in every moment with this little one... I am in love....
  • jonahsmajonahsma member
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    aragosta said:
    I'm just a wreck. Ultrasounds are so, so hard for me. I was getting a Doppler check last week and my midwife picked up my HB instead of the baby's. She said "oops that's yours not the baby's" and I spun out into this horrendous flash back of them saying the same thing about Lucas in the ER. She found the HB a moment later. It's just hard I suppose.

    at every appointment so far it has taken my doc a while to find babys hb and everytime takes me back to when I lost Emily, so yes I know what you mean about flashbacks and being a wreck..not fun, instead of enjoying the moment we are terrified and expecting the worse. ((hugs)) praying for a fast and smooth pregnancy for you !!

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  • @jonahsma - Wishing you lots of luck for a great scan next week!  Looking forward to your update!

    @aragosta - (((HUGS)))  Those flashback moments are so tough.  And being scared of them in no way takes away from your excitement for this little one.  Sending you lots of good vibes for a great NT scan tomorrow!
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  • princezjkprincezjk member
    edited May 2014
    @mrsgerman - ((((big hugs)))) I can totally relate to all of your fears and anxiety.  I also can't get out of bed until I feel at least 3 movements in the morning.  Hoping the next few weeks fly by for you and LO makes a timely arrival in June!  And more (((hugs))) as you approach the Joseph's 1st angelversary.  I am sure what ever you do to honor him will be perfect.

    @MrsNice - Congratulations!  She is absolutely adorable, if not a little impatient!  Glad to hear you are all doing well!

    ETA - more hugs
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  • How far along are you?  29w1d

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?  I had a growth scan yesterday and an OB appt on Thursday.  Relieved that yesterday showed our little guy was measuring right on track.  Just keeping my FX that I get good news about my GTT on Thursday!

    Any pregnancy symptoms or pregnancy cravings or aversions?  My biggest symptom right now is probably just being exhausted all of the time!  As for cravings, mostly just food I shouldn't eat like, chocolate anything and fried foods.

    QOTW:  Have there been any instances in this pregnancy that have been similar to last time?  Good or bad.   Finding out the other week that my iron was low and that I had to take the 3 hour GTT was upsetting because I received the same call during my pregnancy with Izzie and then about 3 weeks later she was gone.  Not related, but just stirred up memories.  

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?  Just trying to stay in a positive, optimistic head space as I approach both my loss milestone and the 1 year loss anniversary of Izzie.  
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  • stefugestefuge member
    @MrsNice - congratulations! She's beautiful!
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  • @Mrs Nice‌ congratulations on your beautiful rainbow!! What a quick arrival!

    @mrsgerman‌ I had exactly the same fears. I can't tell you how many times I broke out my Doppler just to check because my little guy was lazy and didn't move enough to satisfy me. PGAL brain is so difficult to get through. Even now that they're here I find myself waking up scared and checking on them numerous times in the night. It's just so hard to believe that they're ok and they're safe. Sending big hugs your way.
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  • How far along are you?

    13 weeks 2 days today but baby measured 13 weeks 6 days yesterday at 13 weeks 1 day. They are keeping my due date of November 10.

    Any upcoming appointments or milestones?

    Yesterday was a really big day for us. We had a 13 week ultrasound with an MFM due to our loss history (they usually make you wait until 19 or 20 weeks) and he (we did the Panorama test which came back low risk so also know the sex) looked great. We lost our daughter to a terminal diagnosis so to say we were terrified of that ultrasound would have been an understatement.

    I know we will have hurdles to face but yesterday was an amazing day. I couldn't stop crying of happiness and my husband couldn't stop asking the sonographer if everything still looked OK. After five losses (most of which were do to chromosomal issues) I was starting to believe that having biological children just wasn't in the cards for us. We feel very blessed and though of course very cautiously optimistic. We are still waiting to announce until my anatomy scan in mid June.

    Any pregnancy symptoms/cravings/aversions:

    Morning sickness comes and goes especially if I wait to eat. I love everything with meat and haven't been into sweets which is very opposite for me.

    Open Topic:

    I am just so grateful that yesterday went well. I am trying to allow myself to be open to the idea that maybe finally this could actually work out. I suppose it's normal to feel like something else might go wrong because it has so many times before but I'm trying not to let those thoughts take over. It's a balance for sure.
  • BgirmaBgirma member
    edited May 2014
    @Mrs Nice‌- congrats!! She's beautiful!
  • Amelia is beautiful...congrats, @MrsNice!
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  • @mrsnice, big congrats, so happy for you!
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  • @jess123456 - Congratulations on great Panorama results and a great scan!  I don't think PgAL brain ever goes away, but getting good news like that certainly helps keep it at bay!
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  • How far along are you?   24 weeks 4 days

    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?  glucose test on Friday and MFM next Friday

    Any pregnancy symptoms or pregnancy cravings or aversions? the dreaded backaches... but otherwise everything is just cruising along

    QOTW:  Have there been any instances in this pregnancy that have been similar to last time?  Good or bad. 
    Everything is pretty similar so far, but I am just obviously looking for a better outcome this time!

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?   Well I got two "mother-to-be" Mother's Day cards in the mail today. I'm glad people think of me... but I am just kind of sad because I already consider myself a mother! And I remember last year thinking that in one year I would have my first real Mother's Day and here I am one year later thinking the same thing. It just brings back the same old story that I'm sad to not have my son here with me! 

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    7w4d

    U/s this morning. I'm measuring 5w6d and there was a heartbeat of 80. :( The only good news was that baby has grown a week since our last appointment and now has a hearbeat. I'm not off on my dates (got a BFP at 9 DPO), so there isn't much wiggle room. I get another u/s on Friday May 16.

    Limited symptoms. :(

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    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

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  • MCH77 said:

    7w4d

    U/s this morning. I'm measuring 5w6d and there was a heartbeat of 80. :( The only good news was that baby has grown a week since our last appointment and now has a hearbeat. I'm not off on my dates (got a BFP at 9 DPO), so there isn't much wiggle room. I get another u/s on Friday May 16.

    Limited symptoms. :(

    Thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
  • @mmsweeney1‌ I am so sorry that you got those very insensitive cards :( You are absolutely already a mother. I am dreading Sunday for the same reason and I will be with my family. As if it's not already a tough day, insensitive comments make it even harder. Big hugs to you.

  • How far along are you?
    4 Weeks.
    Do you have any upcoming appointments or milestones?
    I have an appt for beta on Monday, and depending what those #s look like, ultrasound the following week.
    Any pregnancy symptoms or pregnancy cravings or aversions?
    Only symptoms is my boobs feel like I got a boob job, and I'm crampy so far. I have not been able to drink coffee, it is not agreeing with me lately.
    QOTW:  Have there been any instances in this pregnancy that have been similar to last time?  Good or bad. 
    Last time around I could not stand the smell of chicken, and that is pretty much true right now, also. I just know that this time I obviously have a lot more worries than previous. 
    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

    I constantly wonder what kind of divine "bargain" I can make to ensure I will have a h&h 9 mo. I'm really frightened and nervous, and I don't know how I will get through as worry literally about every milestone.

    On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
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  • @MCH77 I'm hoping and praying for you!
    On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
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  • Thanks!! I went to my RE for ivf #2, and I have beta this Monday. Yikes!!
    On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
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  • stefugestefuge member
    @diamante1181‌ - congratulations!
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    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
  • @diamante1181‌ keep us updated, praying for you !!
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