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Sad Day

KatzKissKatzKiss member
in November 2014 Moms
I found out today at my regular OB check up that I had a missed miscarriage. The doctor couldn't find the heartbeat so he sent me for an ultrasound. The words, "I'm sorry sweetie.there is no heartbeat" will forever ring in my ears. I'm sick with sadness. I don't know how you all who have been through this come out on the other end. I have D&C this week. Best of luck to all of my November mamas. ILY all and my little angel will be looking down and protecting all of your little angels.
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  • TXSparkyTXSparky member
    I'm so so sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers.


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  • lisarenlisaren member
    What. Wow. Oh I'm so so sorry. :( I'm so sorry. Hugs.




                                  
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  • VioletFlowerVioletFlower member
    Oh I'm so sorry! It is heart breaking but it will get easier. Give yourself time. Hugs.
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  • moroccojademoroccojade member
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    Oh no!  That is so incredibly sad.   :(

    I am so sorry you are going through this.
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  • abbyfulabbyful member
    So sorry ((hugs))
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  • lizgrace03lizgrace03 member
    Oh no. I was really hoping this wouldn't be the case when I saw this thread.

    Please take care of yourself and know that we are all thinking of you and your little angel and the rest of your family this evening.  I am just devastated for you.  ((hugs))


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  • raelynn71109raelynn71109 member
    Oh no! I'm so sorry. :-( T&P for you!

    Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
    TTC #1 since November 2013

    BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14

    BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
    D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14

    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

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  • Kristy774Kristy774 member
    Omg. No. I hate this for you. I am so so sorry. I am crying. I can't believe this, my heart hurts for you.
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  • Kristy774Kristy774 member
    If you need to talk I'm here, I went through this in October. I'm so sorry..
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  • CarrieAnne09CarrieAnne09 member

    I am SO sorry... I have tears in my eyes for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  • MaelaraMaelara member
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    Oh no! I hated reading this :(( I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be greatly misse around here. T&Ps for you and your spouse. Lots of hugs.
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  • sAAmFamsAAmFam member
    T&P to you and your family
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  • KatheTravisKatheTravis member
    I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family
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  • TeeJ526TeeJ526 member
    I'm so sorry. :(
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  • dbgwifedbgwife member
    I am sooo sorry!! Please take care of yourself! ((Hugs))
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  • Nfranco973Nfranco973 member
    Oh no.. ! So sorry for your loss.. Take care of yourself :(
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  • puppylove556puppylove556 member
    Sorry
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  • RachelC79RachelC79 member
    Oh no! I am so, so sorry. How terrible. You're in my thoughts. 
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  • LadyBird9LadyBird9 member
    noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

    i'm so sorry, love.  <3
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  • PandaConPandaCon member
    So so sorry Katz. T&P's for you. My heart hurts for you.


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  • lizzielu82lizzielu82 member
    My heart is breaking for you - I'm so very sorry and will be sending good thoughts your way to you and your family. 
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  • Drmommy84Drmommy84 member
    I'm so sorry this is terrible. My T&P are with you and your family :-(
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  • schrijiverschrijiver member
    I am so sorry :(. That's heartbreaking. T&P for you and your family.
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  • smboswell1smboswell1 member
    My mouth dropped... I'm so sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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  • FirstBabyDoyleFirstBabyDoyle member
    :( I am so sad for you and your family T&Ps your way.
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  • morrkimmorrkim member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • ccamccam member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26

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  • jess123456jess123456 member
    I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • renbeerenbee member
    Fuck. NO! I'm so so sorry. I know how devastating those words are - I can still hear them clearly two weeks later. Please PM me if you need to talk, vent, rant, ask questions, anything. I'm here for you. ((Hugs))

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  • Sarahbeth612Sarahbeth612 member
    I'm so sorry @KatzKiss‌ and I remember my experience almost word for word as you told it. Keep your chin up and try to take care of yourself. Hugs
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  • sweetbabyrahesweetbabyrahe member
    So so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
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  • JamieK1882JamieK1882 member
    I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself. T&P


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  • Seneca0325Seneca0325 member
    I'm so sorry!!! I know I don't post much, but I check in on the boards often and will miss seeing you around! Take care!!
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  • lincoln79lincoln79 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    (((hugs)))
    You will come out the other side, but just give yourself the time you need to grieve and heal.
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    IVF #1 August 2012. BFP! Beta #1 56.7 Beta #2 150 One baby, one heartbeat on 9/20/12! no h/b @7w6d. dandc @8w0d, 
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  • CoffeeAndWineCoffeeAndWine member
    I'm so sorry :( Thoughts and prayers for you and your DH.
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  • wallygirlwallygirl member
    Oh no!! I'm so sorry. You are in my prayers.
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  • MollMoll4MollMoll4 member
    I am so, so sorry for your loss.

    I've never had a d&c, but had a missed miscarriage in November so feel free to pm me if you need to talk! Please be good to yourself. T&P to you.
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  • AmyC925AmyC925 member
    I'm so sorry :(

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  • Jpinky9Jpinky9 member
    I am so so sorry!!! My heart breaks for you and your family! I am sending you lots of thoughts and prayers during this time!!! Hugs!
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