DS hasn't liked his classroom para from the beginning. He said he doesn't like the way she talks to him (it sounds like she's very blunt/matter of fact). I told him that I have co-workers that I don't particularly like, but that we have to work together to take care of patients, etc. To me it's a "you're not going to get along with/like everyone" type of thing that he has to work through. For the most part, it's gone ok for the year.
This past week, he's had a lot of extra math homework because he avoids the para by going to the bathroom or simply isn't doing the work when he is supposed to. I'm sure it's wearing on him with the end of the year nearing. I was talking to a co-worker and she doesn't think it's fair that DS had to deal with this at such a young age and that I should request a change of him not working with her or something.
I did talk to his classroom teacher (who really enjoys DS) about the para early in the year. She has worked with this para in her class for years and didn't have any concerns or insight about what I told her about DS not liking her.
Edit: DS is 8 and in 2nd grade